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My mom has been collecting miniatures for 50 years. They have taken over our 1000-square-foot basement.

This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Celina Myers. It has been edited for length and clarity.

When I was a little girl, I remember having birthday parties at my house and taking my friends down to our basement to see my mom’s huge collection of tiny figures, neatly organised in typeset trays hanging all over the walls. Our entire 1000-square-foot basement had been turned into a sort of antique warehouse.

It all started when my mom was 14, in the early 70s. Her friend had been given a typeset tray and put little items in it. My mom wanted to do the same, so she went to a garage sale and found a tray like the one her friend had.


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Celina Myers’s mom started buying miniatures with the $2 her aunt would give her for her birthday.

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Each birthday, her aunts would gift her $2 to buy a charm for her charm bracelet, but instead of buying a charm, Mom would buy a miniature for her tray.

One after another, typeset trays filled. And this is still happening even today.

My friends love to see the collection

As a kid, my friends loved coming to our house because they wanted to see the collection in the basement. They all jumped from hole to hole to see what new miniature she had added most recently.

My personal favorites were the Spice Girls dolls, crazy bones, and old playing cards. I loved the nostalgic ones most, the ones I remember buying with mom.

Although mom never stopped us from looking at her special finds, she always said that we had to look with our eyes and not touch with our fingers.


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Celina Myers’ mom collected miniatures for 50 years.

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It never occurred to me that her collection was weird. In fact, I thought she was this really cool mom who everyone loved.

Every Saturday, my mom, grandma, and I would head out to the garage sales to find new additions. We called ourselves the Three Musketeers. We’d scan all the knickknacks to see what we liked, what we didn’t have, and what would fit in the typeset box compartments.

Mom also went to antique shops, and I’d add my own Happy Meal items.

It was a family adventure.

This is collecting, not hoarding

We never got rid of anything, but I wouldn’t call this hoarding. I’d call it collecting, because she displayed everything beautifully, always making sure the miniatures were dusted.

When I think about the future of clearing out this space when she’s no longer with us, I sometimes feel intimidated. But she finds so much joy in her collection, and I wouldn’t ever want to ask her to downsize what she has on display.


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Celina Myers says her mom still feels joy looking at her collection.

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I’ve told her that one day, I want to open a museum or a breakfast restaurant with her collection behind Plexiglas. I’d call it Joanne’s. Everyone can enjoy it then — that’s what she wants.

Each miniature is a piece of my mom that means so much to her.

She still finds joy in her collection

In the last few years, she’s become severely disabled, and one of her greatest joys throughout has been describing exactly where and when she found a particular miniature, and the story behind it.

Since she can’t get out easily to garage sales and antique stores to find miniatures now that she is in a wheelchair, she loves using Facebook Marketplace and Craigslist. She’ll find something she wants online, and Dad will pack up the wheelchair, and off they go to collect the knickknack.


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Celina Myers is thinking about setting up a P.O. Box so people can send miniatures to her mom.

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After I posted a video of her collection on Instagram, there were 12,000 comments, and mom wanted to read each one. She loved it.

I’m planning to open a PO Box and then post a YouTube video asking people to send her collectibles, along with a note explaining the item and its story.

I know she’ll sit for hours, looking at what’s been sent to her and enjoying the letters that accompany it. It will light her up, make her so happy.




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I’ve lived in the UAE for 17 years. I ran to the basement as missiles flew overhead — and I still feel safe.

On Saturday, I was standing on the beach below my home on Dubai’s Palm Crescent when I noticed thick plumes of black smoke rising from the Fairmont Hotel across the water on the trunk of the Palm Jumeirah.

I watched the dark fumes with dread as they rapidly grew thicker at sunset. The sight recalled the same images I saw from explosions in Beirut and Gaza during my own reporting in the region over the past few years.

I live in a beachfront apartment on the East Crescent, the outer arc that curves around Palm Jumeirah and shields it from the open sea.


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She saw smoke when standing outside her home on Dubai’s Palm Crescent.

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I had just gotten back from visiting a friend from graduate school and her family at a beach club at the base of The Palm Jumeirah. An afternoon meant to be spent enjoying the beach and the cool waters during one of the Gulf’s best times of year, quickly turned into one of spotting numerous missiles in the sky as they were being intercepted by the United Arab Emirates’ defense system.

The US strikes on Iran, which we had anticipated for weeks, had begun, and as many in the Gulf had feared, they have led to hundreds of missile and drone attacks on Gulf soil.

After an intense few hours filled with worry, I had gone down to the beach at my home to watch the sunset and try to find a moment of calm. Others had done the same. A fisherman stood with his line in the water. Couples walked by the water’s edge as the evening light shimmered on the waves. Others lounged by the pool.

For a moment, it looked like any other Saturday.


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But the smoke still spiraled into the sky, an eerie reminder that it wasn’t. People stood quietly, watching.

Then, without warning, a fast-moving ball of fire flew over our heads and our building. Instinct took over. We ran for the basement, breathless, confused, scared, and frustrated. A woman rushed in after us, crying. She said she’d just driven past The Fairmont and seen it in flames.

I’ve lived in the United Arab Emirates since 2009. I never would have imagined that the sights of bombings I have reported on in other Arab nations would be seen and experienced here, a Gulf nation considered to be one of the safest in the world.

This is a place where my friends from Lebanon, Palestine, Syria, and even Iran and parts of Africa have come to for a safer life and better work opportunities.

They did not escape war to come to experience another war.

We knew it was coming

Since mid-January, there had been growing talk of a possible military strike on Iran. For weeks, people across the Gulf — residents and visitors alike — had been bracing for it. At conferences, art fairs, dinners with friends, and even casual work meetings, the subject would come up.

People would whisper about it, sometimes even joke.

“Let’s see if it happens next week or next weekend,” someone would say.

“Let’s have lunch while we still can,” a friend in Downtown Dubai told me recently. “We may all be living in the basement soon,” they added with a laugh.

But the moment never came.

We’re now in the second week of Ramadan — a time meant for reflection, charity, community, and peace. Dubai had been full of festive iftars and suhoors, the celebratory meals where Muslims break their fast after sunset.

Until this week, the city felt joyful, as it always does during this month.


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She has received texts warning her to stay away from windows and falling debris.

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Life is carrying on

The last few days have brought real fear and confusion. At times I’ve felt completely on edge. But I also feel safe. I feel grateful.

As I write this on the evening of March 3, flights across the Gulf are still suspended. The UAE says it has intercepted 186 ballistic missiles and more than 800 drones. I can hear the fighter jets roaring overhead. And yet, outside, children are playing again. Birds are chirping.

Businesses are open, even if many people are working from home. Life is going on, and I do feel safe. I’ve gone through several nights of fitful sleep, waking up to emergency texts from the government on my phone warning us to stay away from windows and falling debris.

The noise and uncertainty have been scary. But seeing how the UAE has been handling the situation — confidently and with resilience — has given me strength.

Don’t get me wrong, this isn’t easy. I have also seen commentary and reports online that have used this moment to criticize the nation, dismissing it as “glitzy,” as if it isn’t a real place where real people live. But for those of us who call it home, it’s very real.

Over the 17 years I’ve been here, I have lived through two recessions, the COVID pandemic, and several floods. During each catastrophe, the UAE has surprised its skeptics and bounced back.

I don’t know how or when this will end. I am still undecided as to when or if I will leave. I’m still nervous going to sleep at night. It’s only been a few days, and I’m still jumping at loud noises. But each hour and day that passes, I do feel calmer. We will get through this. The UAE will get through this.




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