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I took a 7-day cruise with carry-on luggage and a backpack. See everything on my packing list and how I organized it all.

  • I packed for a seven-night Caribbean cruise with just a backpack and a carry-on suitcase.
  • I was on board Royal Caribbean’s Wonder of the Seas mega ship.
  • Look inside my suitcase and backpack, and check out my packing list, from clothes to sunscreen.

In April 2022, I packed my favorite backpack and carry-on luggage and took them from my home in New York City to Fort Lauderdale, Florida, for my first cruise.

The seven-night voyage aboard Royal Caribbean’s Wonder of the Seas took me to Honduras, Mexico, and the cruise line’s private island in the Bahamas.

Since I had to fly to Florida, I used a carry-on suitcase to avoid extra fees and the wait at baggage claim.

For a first-time cruiser, I think I packed pretty well.

When boarding the ship, my bag was checked and brought to my stateroom later that night, leaving me with just the backpack for my first day of cruising.

The author’s luggage was delivered to her stateroom.

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So I had to be thoughtful about what I packed in each bag.

Without access to my suitcase on day one, I also strategically packed my Brevite Jumper backpack.


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The author’s camera backpack by Brevite.

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I like how my Brevite backpack holds and protects my camera gear while also being large and versatile enough to carry everything else I might need.

In the main pocket, I kept essentials like camera gear, sunglasses, and a swimsuit.


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A peek inside the author’s backpack.

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I included a bathing suit in my backpack so I could swim on the first day of my cruise before my suitcase arrived at my stateroom.

I also stuffed a fanny pack full of medication in my backpack.


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The author stored medicine in her fanny pack.

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I brought the fanny pack so I could have a smaller bag to carry around when I didn’t need the whole backpack. I stored medications in there to save space while traveling.

I used the front and back pockets of my backpack for my electronics, planner, and a notebook.


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The author’s gear inside her backpack.

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I also stuffed my phone charger in the front pocket.

I used an Away carry-on suitcase for this trip.


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The author’s packed suitcase.

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My Away carry-on luggage has a protective shell, and I think it’s roomier than any other carry-on suitcase I’ve used.

I used packing cubes for my clothing and bathing suits.


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The author’s swimsuits in a packing cube.

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The packing cubes kept my belongings consolidated and organized.

I also packed toiletries and a pair of sandals that could get wet for the pool and beach.


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The author’s toiletries.

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I didn’t pack shampoo, conditioner, or body wash because I knew these toiletries would be provided in my cabin.

For clothing, I packed versatile pieces so I could make multiple outfits with the same items.


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Clothing in the author’s packing cube.

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I brought four pairs of shorts (to wear each pair twice), six shirts (to have a fresh one most days), nine pairs of underwear (so I always had extra), one dress for formal nights on the ship, and one pair of pants.

I also packed three bathing suits and a rash guard.


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The author’s swimwear.

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I was glad I had multiple swimsuits since I had to let each dry for about a day before wearing it again.

In the zip pocket of my suitcase, I packed essentials like sunscreen and a magnet for my stateroom door.


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The author made sure to pack a magnet for her stateroom door.

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The magnet helped me easily find my room in a hallway of identical doors.

I also packed a rain jacket.


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The author’s rain jacket fit in her suitcase.

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While it didn’t rain during my cruise, the jacket came in handy on windy nights on the ship’s top decks.

I wore a pair of sneakers while traveling, on the ship, and at most port stops, so I didn’t have to pack them.


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The author wears sneakers on the ship.

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I wore a light pair of canvas sneakers so my feet wouldn’t get too hot.

I also wore my sun hat during my travels.


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The author poses at a port in front of the world’s largest cruise ship.

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Wearing my big, floppy hat saved space in my luggage and kept the brim from getting damaged.

I think I did a pretty good job packing for my first cruise, aside from a few items I missed.


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The author didn’t think to bring more pants, earplugs, or a waterproof phone case.

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I longed for a waterproof phone case to take pictures underwater, earplugs to help me sleep, and more pants for cold mornings and evenings. I think these items would have fit in my suitcase — had I thought to bring them.

Here’s my full packing list for the cruise, which I thought worked well with limited space.


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The author’s Caribbean cruise packing list.

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I’d use this packing list again to avoid having to check a suitcase at the airport. 

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My family of 5 went on our first cruise. We had fun, but there are 4 things I wish we’d known before getting on the ship.

2024 was a big year in our household. All three kids were graduating — our oldest from high school and our twins from junior high.

When it came time to celebrate these achievements, we gave them an option. We could throw a party or use the money for an awesome family vacation instead.

So, before our oldest left for college, we came together one last time for a seven-day trip to Alaska on our first-ever cruise.

We were all excited about the idea, and honestly, everyone had a fantastic time. However, I don’t think any of us were completely prepared our first cruising experience.

Here are four things I wish we had known before boarding the Celebrity cruise ship.

Turning our phones on airplane mode would’ve saved us a lot of money

Our phones are such an important part of our lives that it’s almost unheard of to go without them for minutes, let alone days. However, we purposely didn’t purchase the ship’s WiFi package because we wanted a chance to disconnect and enjoy Alaska’s beauty.

What we were unaware of, however, is that once we got away from land, we should’ve put our phones on airplane mode. Since we didn’t, they switched to a service called Cellular at Sea, which uses satellites to keep the phones connected. However, this can be expensive.

Luckily, after racking up $100 in charges within hours of setting sail, AT&T cut my device off until I contacted them. However, this was a costly lesson.

Next time, we’ll be sure to turn on airplane mode and call our cellular provider to talk about cruise packages.

I wish we would’ve known about the formal night


Chris, his wife, and three sons pose in sweatshirts in front of formal photographs.

We didn’t come dressed for formal night.

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We’re typically a jeans and T-shirt family. It’s not that we don’t clean up well; it’s just that we don’t do it often. So, a formal night wasn’t even on our radar.

We knew we needed nicer clothing for our dinner reservations on the ship, but we didn’t know that one night, everyone would go all out.

We skipped dinner that night and hit the buffet instead (which, honestly, we did more often than not anyway), and we certainly weren’t the only ones not dressed up.

However, I wish we had known about this in advance, as it would have been exciting to join in on the fun.

Excursions through the cruise line can be expensive


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Luckily, we found a cheaper excursion to visit a dog-sled team.

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It’s no secret that cruising can be expensive. So, when it came time to book excursions, we knew they would be pricey. However, we still weren’t prepared for just how pricey they would be.

Luckily, almost every port we stopped at had third-party companies who would pick passengers up at the dock and take them to do fun and exciting things.

For example, being in Alaska, we wanted to learn about and visit a dog-sled team. Although the cruise line offered this experience, we saved more than 50% by booking with an outside party.

However, it’s important to know your schedule and check to make sure the third party will guarantee you’ll be back on time — because if you’re not, the ship won’t wait for you.

Getting a good space on the deck on cruising days can be hard

On the days the ship doesn’t stop at a port, the tables at breakfast, couches by the windows, and lounge chairs by the pool all become valuable real estate.

Instead of waking up early to claim a space near the pool, we chose to sleep in instead. However, because of this, we should’ve been prepared to settle for a less-than-prime space to sit and relax.

Instead of a view of the ocean and the mountains, we got stuck in the middle of the ship near the bathrooms.

Even with these small missteps, none of it was enough to put even the slightest damper on what was a fabulous time aboard our first cruise. The next time we take to the seas, though, we’ll be better prepared for what’s to come.

This story was originally published on January 31, 2025, and most recently updated on February 25, 2026.




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We paid $9,000 for the cheapest room on an ultra-luxury Caribbean cruise. See inside our ship and 302-square-foot suite.

  • We booked the least expensive suite on a Seabourn ultra-luxury cruise for about $9,000.
  • After crunching numbers and seeing high-end resort prices, this felt reasonable for a family trip.
  • We loved getting to see lots of new places and not worry about having to plan our meals.

I paid $9,000 for what was technically the cheapest room on an ultra-luxury cruise — a price that initially felt steep until I compared it with alternatives.

My family had been planning a multigenerational trip to the Caribbean during the busy period between Christmas and New Year’s Eve, which is also one of the most expensive travel weeks of the year.

We wanted something that felt indulgent without becoming logistically exhausting or financially disproportionate once all the extras were added up.

At first, we looked at high-end beach resorts, but they were commanding eye-watering rates. I saw a few in Barbados and St. Barts charging over $4,000 a night for a room, and that price doesn’t even include food, drinks, and gratuities.

The costs seemed like they could really add up. As we ran the numbers, an all-inclusive cruise began to make more sense.

Plus, we liked the idea of exploring Caribbean destinations we hadn’t visited before without having to deal with multiple hotel check-ins, flights, and transfers. A port-heavy itinerary could allow us to sample several places while unpacking just once.

So, our group settled on a 12-night Caribbean cruise aboard the Seabourn Ovation.

Our family booked two rooms and spent about $20,000 on the cruise.

Our group of five set sail on the Seabourn Ovation.

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We traveled as a group of five: my mother, my brother and sister-in-law, their 7-year-old son, and me.

In total, we booked two entry-level suites — one for my mother and me, and another for my brother, sister-in-law, and their son — bringing the combined cruise fare to just over $20,000 for five people across 12 nights.

This figure includes accommodations, all meals, a selection of soft drinks and alcoholic beverages, and gratuities. We saved some money on my 7-year-old nephew’s fare thanks to the cruise line’s third-guest-at-half-price policy.

By booking through a preferred travel advisor, I also received $400 in onboard credit, plus an additional $250 referral credit (which my brother’s family also received).

Our cabin felt like part of a boutique hotel.


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A wide shot of our suite’s interior on the Seabourn Ovation.

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Our suite measured 302 square feet, plus a 68-square-foot balcony.

Its decor was pretty minimal, but it felt a bit elevated with accents of marble, dark wood, and glass.

Despite being the cheapest option on the ship, this room felt more like it was part of a boutique hotel than just a standard cruise cabin.

The walk-in closet was a pleasant surprise.


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We could fit a lot of clothes in here.

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The base-category suite felt thoughtfully laid out, with a seating area, a couch, a table, two beds, and a generously sized walk-in closet. Our clothes and bags easily fit inside with space to spare.

In the other suite, a sofa bed was set up as a dedicated sleeping space for my nephew.

The bathroom had dual sinks, a tub, and a compact but functional shower.


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The bathroom felt spacious enough.

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The bright-white bathroom featured dual vanities, a soaking tub, and a glass-enclosed shower. My only critique was the shower size, which felt slightly tight compared to ones in some newer ships we’ve sailed on.

Our room’s minibar was stocked exactly to our preferences.


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Before sailing, we submitted drink preferences to the Seabourn crew.

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We were delighted to find our room’s minibar stocked with complimentary ginger beer, juices, and the spirits we requested prior to our sailing.

Twice-daily housekeeping kept everything meticulously refreshed.

Room aside, we were pretty happy with the ship.


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We had sushi on the ship.

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Since all of our meals, standard beverages, and gratuities were included in the cost of the cruise fare, we didn’t have to budget or crunch numbers during our trip.

We had most of our dinners in the ship’s main dining room, which was so easy. It felt quite formal, and the rotating menus kept things interesting across the 12-night itinerary.

Passengers also had access to The Patio, a poolside eatery with laid-back fare, and The Colonnade, a more casual spot serving buffet breakfasts and lunches, plus seated themed dinners.

We also enjoyed our opportunities for specialty dining.


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The food at Solis really impressed me.

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Options for specialty dining included a sushi restaurant and a Mediterranean eatery called Solis, which was a standout for me.

The menu featured steak, lobster, and whole grilled fish deboned tableside. I particularly loved its post-dinner affogatos

Pools, hot tubs, and quieter outdoor spaces were easy to find.


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The main deck was lit up at night.

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The ship has a large main pool surrounded by lots of loungers, though we preferred the smaller hot tubs in other areas.

Quieter spots, like the hot tub at the bow with incredible views of the ocean, quickly became our favorites.

My favorite area on board was The Retreat.


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The Retreat was one of the best places to get work done.

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Located on the top sundeck, The Retreat was my favorite area on the ship.

The space offered shaded cabanas, a noticeably calmer atmosphere than the main pool deck, and attentive, unhurried service.

To access it, passengers had to pay an additional $150 per day on port days or $250 on sea days.

Booking it on sea days felt especially worthwhile. The quiet setting made it easy to relax or catch up on a bit of remote work on my laptop without feeling out of place.

Excursions cost extra, but they felt well-organized and fairly priced.


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We embarked on some excursions at the ports.

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We mostly booked excursions through the cruise line for peace of mind.

Our favorite was in Saint Lucia, where a packed day included a catamaran ride, volcano hike, mud bath, and snorkeling.

The excursion ran late, but the ship waited for us as it had been booked through them.

Holiday surprises added to the experience.


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We spent the holiday on a beach.

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On Saint Kitts, the crew arranged a private Christmas Day beach party with grilled lobster and drinks. Later, Santa Claus arrived by Jet Ski to serve caviar and Champagne in the surf.

The cruise’s overall cost felt reasonable considering everything it included.


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The cruise meant we could visit new places without planning out flights and hotels.

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Ultimately, our cruise averaged out to about $333 per person, per night. That felt surprisingly fair considering how much was included in our 12-night trip.

We also really enjoyed the ship’s intimate size. Compared to other mega-ships carrying thousands of people, this 600-passenger vessel felt calm, navigable, and personal. We never felt overwhelmed by crowds, even on sea days.

Although children aren’t typically the target audience for ultra-luxury cruises, my nephew genuinely had a great time alongside the mostly older guests. His sailing also felt like a great value, considering he was charged half price as a third guest and still had his own proper bed.

For a multigenerational holiday trip that combined ease, variety, and consistent service, the value ultimately justified the price.

All in all, we enjoyed the trip enough to book another Seabourn voyage (at a discounted price) before disembarking.




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I spent 50 days on the same Celebrity cruise ship in 5 different rooms. Here’s how they compare, and which is the best value.

  • I sailed on Celebrity Constellation in interior, ocean-view, veranda, and concierge-class cabins.
  • Some lower-tier rooms felt similar to me, mostly just differing in configuration and floorspace.
  • Concierge class was great, but if I were paying full price I’d go for a standard veranda room.

Last fall, my husband and I sailed on the Celebrity Constellation for 51 nights in a row on six back-to-back cruises.

We did so using offers for discounted sailings that we received while playing in the onboard casino on a Celebrity cruise we’d taken earlier that year.

Our almost two-month journey began in Rome and ended in Tampa, and we spent each sailing in a different cabin trying the various room classes Celebrity offers.

Ultimately, we were able to sail in interior, ocean-view (standard and deluxe), and concierge-class cabins. Here’s how they compared, and which I’d book next time if I were paying full price.

We started in a cozy interior cabin without windows.

Though it would’ve been nice to see the seas from our room, the lack of morning sunshine streaming in can be a blessing after a late night.

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On every cruise ship, interior staterooms tend to be cheaper and smaller than the other cabin types.

Prices vary widely depending on demand, itinerary, and dates, but I’ve generally seen these rooms listed on the Constellation for about $550 to $700 per person.

It was a well-appointed and basic room of 171 square feet that included a small desk area, refrigerator, television, closet, bed, and bathroom.

The king-sized bed was comfortable and the bathroom felt spacious. I especially liked the generous counter space and large rectangular shower.

After a late night, our interior room’s the lack of morning sunshine was a blessing. It was always easy to sleep in without windows, but I did miss seeing the stellar sunsets at sea from my bed.

I spent two voyages in ocean-view staterooms.


Bed under window in ocean-view stateroom on Celebrity Constellation

I liked that the ocean-view rooms tended to be lower on the ship.

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In my experience, upgrading from interior to ocean-view can add around $50 to $100 per person to the cost of the cruise.

This room was the same size as the interior one and elements of the space, from the bed to the nightstands, looked nearly identical.

However, the various ocean-view rooms can have different layouts. In one, the window was above the head of the bed, and in the other, we were able to use our window well as a bench or storage area.

These were appointed similarly to the inside cabin, but are located on the outside part of the lower decks, featuring windows of various sizes.

Lower floors tend to experience less movement, so these sailings felt especially quiet and smooth — this is one perk interior and ocean-view rooms tend to have over ones with balconies.

The deluxe ocean-view room offered more space and a larger window.


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Our deluxe ocean-view cabin had a fairly large window.

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A cut above the regular ocean-view cabins, the deluxe room size took us from 171 to 242 square feet.

In comparison, this room felt massive, and the (slightly bigger) window provided outstanding views of the sea. The bathroom was similar-sized to the other classes, and the bed and vanity appeared to be the same.

It was nice to have space for in-room yoga and additional chairs that I used to host friends in the room.

These typically cost about $100 per person more than standard ocean-view cabins. Though it was a pleasant week, I am not convinced the larger room and window are worth the extra cost.

The veranda room featured an outdoor balcony.


Sunset view off of balcony cabin on on Celebrity Constellation

I loved watching the sunset from our balcony.

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On one voyage we stayed in a standard veranda room, which is also commonly referred to as a balcony cabin. It was slightly longer than the previous staterooms, but at 175 square feet, it was not as large as the deluxe ocean-view.

The setups were quite similar, though I liked that the outdoor balcony added another 40 square feet for relaxing.

The best part of a balcony room is the access to fresh, salty air. I loved leaving the door open to hear the waves lap against the side of the ship.

Again, prices can vary, but I’ve seen balcony rooms on this ship cost about $300 more per person than a typical ocean-view cabin.

The cabin we most enjoyed was the concierge class.


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The concierge-class room came with a full-sized couch for entertaining.

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The room itself is a balcony cabin, but is slightly larger than the basic veranda level at 191 square feet plus a 42-square-foot balcony.

Some of that extra space was used for additional shelving, and an even longer couch that could fold out to a queen-size bed.

Most notably, though, this class comes with access to a dedicated concierge to assist us with anything we need around the ship, such as booking excursions.

Our bathroom looked the same as it did in the other rooms.


Bathroom in Concierge Class room on Celebrity Constellation

The bathroom in our concierge-class room wasn’t anything special.

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The bathroom and closet we had in concierge class resembled the ones in the other rooms. All of them were simple and functional with a good amount of counter space and a decent-sized shower.

However, our bathrobes in here seemed to feel more plush than the ones in the regular cabins — but maybe we just imagined it.

Concierge class comes with many perks.


View of balcony and desk area Concierge Class cabin on Celebrity Constellation

Our concierge-class cabin felt quite spacious.

Tammy Barr

This room class comes with an abundance of perks like complimentary binoculars to use and a bottle of sparkling wine, plus a menu of pillow options to choose from for the bed.

Throughout our week sailing in concierge class, we were able to attend exclusive events, like a lecture on our upcoming ports and a party on the ship’s helipad, where we enjoyed complimentary drinks with the officers as we sailed out of port.

As much as I enjoyed the in-room benefits of concierge class (especially the plush pillows), I do think these exclusive events would get old on a repeat cruise.

This luxe-feeling class can get pricey — and it’s not even Celebrity’s top offering.


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We stayed in a concierge-class room on the Celebrity Constellation.

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Oftentimes, concierge class costs nearly twice as much as an interior cabin. I’ve seen rooms on this ship for about $928 a week per person to over $1,000.

Although the service we received felt like what we’d find at a fine hotel, this isn’t even the top class that Celebrity offers.

Next up is AquaClass, which offers similar balcony rooms, but with additional spa-related perks and better locations on the ship (like aft-facing balconies). I’ve seen these for a few hundred more than concierge.

Then, Celebrity has its highest-end suites in The Retreat, a ship-within-a-ship concept with a private restaurant, lounge, and team of dedicated employees. These can be double the price of a concierge room.

Ultimately, the sweet spot for me is the veranda room.


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If I’m factoring in cost and value, my top pick would be the standard veranda room.

Tammy Barr

Celebrity offers cabins for all budgets and I relished the opportunity to try several of them.

It’s no surprise that concierge class — the most expensive offering with the most luxurious perks — was my favorite. However, if I were paying full price for a sailing I’d book a standard veranda room.

In my opinion, it feels like a great value at a more reasonable cost, and paying a few hundred dollars to upgrade from ocean-view or interior room seems worth it.

And, at the end of the day, when the ship is sailing out of port, I just want to be able to watch from my private balcony — not looking through a window or crowding on a shared deck.




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In my 60s, I sold the home I raised my son in and took a job on a cruise ship. It gave me the freedom I needed.

At almost 70, with my son grown and building his own creative life, I realized the home I had poured myself into for two decades no longer supported the future I wanted.

For almost 20 years, that house looked like the picture of stability. Teal doors, a tire swing, and a sunny studio beside the garage. It was where I raised my son as a single mother and built my photography career. Most people assumed I would stay there forever.


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The author decided to sell the house were she raised her son.

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But when my son graduated and moved to Orlando, something shifted. I had spent years encouraging him to live the life he wanted. Suddenly, I realized I needed to do the same.

The house was a money pit

Behind the postcard charm, a truth emerged. The house no longer supported my future. What once felt like a comfortable sanctuary had become a moneypit, its growing debt reminding me daily that I could not afford the life or the freedom I wanted. I had built a home to raise a confident and independent child, and I had done that, but holding on to the house was keeping me from evolving into the next chapter of my life, a chapter filled with creative possibilities that debt made impossible to pursue.


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The author purged her belongings before selling her house.

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Sorting through the rooms, I noticed how little the objects mattered. It was never the things, only the memories. And memories do not require storage space. I photographed what mattered, donated most of the rest, and watched the remnants of my old life line the curb. Letting go gave me breathing room for the first time in years. I could imagine what came next.

I sold the house and found confidence

Selling the house gave me the financial and emotional space to address something I had avoided for years. I needed extensive dental work, and with missing teeth, I no longer felt confident in my own smile. As a photographer, I had spent decades coaxing others to relax while I avoided the lens myself.


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The author traveled to Brazil after selling her house.

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I trusted a cosmetic dentist in southern Brazil, the parent of an exchange student I once hosted, and the cost was far more realistic than in the United States. After surgery and the initial healing, I traveled to Rio. For the first time in years, I felt free to focus my lens and smile at the world around me without hesitation.

The physical and financial weight I had carried for years began to lift. Brazil restored my confidence and reminded me that reinvention was still possible.

I took a job on a cruise

Before selling my house, I had researched ways to travel while working. A friend hosted dinners as a sommelier on cruise ships, and my algorithm kept suggesting photography jobs at sea. I applied to a few with curiosity.


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The author took a job as a cruise photographer.

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While I was still in Rio, the call came. I was offered a contract as the master photographer on a premium luxury cruise line, a role that would take me across multiple continents. To qualify, I needed a Seafarer Certificate, which at my age required extensive medical tests and functional exams. It was humbling, but I passed.

I was notified with less than a week to prepare that my contract would start in Sydney. After a 31-hour flight, knowing I would board within 24 hours, I dropped my bags at the hotel and walked the waterfront from Darling Harbor to the Opera House. A mist hung in the air, turning the city into a soft shimmer through my lens.

Life at sea was a study in contrasts. I photographed in a studio on the 15th floor but slept far below in a windowless cabin. I climbed endless flights of stairs each day. The ancient programs, cameras, and equipment made my days long and tedious. But above deck, the ocean made everything worth it. An unobstructed sunset on open water can shift your entire mood. Each time we reached a new port, the world opened again. My creative mojo began to gel for the first time in a long while, and I realized I was able to absorb so much only because I had let go of so much.

A new home and a new beginning

In six months, I had visited three continents, become healthier than I had been in years, and for the first time in decades, my smile came without hesitation. My financial responsibilities felt lighter, and the spark I had been missing finally came back after years of accumulating belongings and obligations that had kept me anchored when I was ready to sail into another chapter filled with creativity.

While recovering in Miami from an injury, I received another unexpected call. An apartment had become available in the Asbury Park building where I had applied years earlier. It had an ocean view, a community of artists and musicians, and a rent I could actually afford. It felt like the universe was giving me the chance to finally act on my hopes and creativity.

I had let go of everything that once held me back. What I gained was freedom, the freedom to create, to travel, and to smile freely again, with my camera as my ticket forward.




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I tried the famous $140 cake that Tom Cruise gifts to his celebrity friends every holiday season

  • I tried the famous “Tom Cruise Cake,” which the actor sends to a select group every Christmas.
  • Recipients have included Glen Powell, Jon Hamm, Kirsten Dunst, and Elle and Dakota Fanning.
  • The dessert is a white chocolate bundt cake from Doan’s Bakery in Los Angeles.

‘Twas the weeks before Christmas, when all through Hollywood, every celebrity was stirring, even Glen Powell.

Their assistants and publicists checked the mail with care, in hopes that the famous “Tom Cruise Cake” would soon be there.

We may have taken some creative liberties with the iconic “A Visit from St. Nicholas” poem, but there’s no denying that Cruise’s annual gift has become the stuff of legends.

Every year, the “Mission: Impossible” star sends white chocolate coconut bundt cakes from Doan’s Bakery in Los Angeles to a select group of friends and former costars. It’s a list that every celebrity wants to be on.

For those not on the list or local to LA, the famous cake is also available on Goldbelly for $140. Of course, I had to order one for the holidays to see what all the hype was about.

Katie Holmes introduced Tom Cruise to his favorite Christmas gift.

Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes split in 2012.

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Karen Doan, the self-taught baker behind the famous cake, revealed during a 2021 interview with Spectrum News 1 that Holmes, who was married to Cruise from 2006 to 2012, had learned about Doan’s Bakery from Diane Keaton while they were working on the 2008 film “Mad Money.”

“When Tom and Katie had a big party at their new home in Beverly Hills, we did all the cakes,” Doan said. “They loved it.”

Cruise and Holmes’ marriage didn’t last, but his relationship with Doan’s Bakery has continued for over a decade.

“This has become so popular that I would say when the phone rings, 80% of the people, that’s what they want,” Doan said about the coconut cake in 2021.

The “Tom Cruise Cake,” as it’s since been nicknamed, has become a status symbol in Hollywood.


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Cruise always sends the cake to his former costars, including Glen Powell and Tom Hanks.

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Whether it’s a bouquet of flowers from Beyoncé or some Meghan Markle marmalade, the A-list loves to show off their exclusive gifts on Instagram. Celebrities, they’re just like us!

The “Tom Cruise Cake” is no different. Stars like Mindy Kaling and Glen Powell have posted pictures of their cakes, and the famous dessert is a frequent discussion on the talk show circuit. Celebrity gossip blogs even publish lists detailing which celebrities — including Jon Hamm, the Fanning sisters, and Angela Bassett — make the cut every year.

The cake itself has also won high praise. Kirsten Dunst told Graham Norton in 2016 that it was the “best coconut cake I’ve ever had in my life,” and Tom Hanks called it “off-the-scale fantastic” during a 2023 video for Mythical Kitchen. The actor loves the cake so much that he said it would be one of the dishes he’d want for his last meal on earth.

I don’t think I’ve ever tried a cake with so much hype. Clearly, it had a lot to live up to.

My cake arrived two days after I ordered it on Goldbelly.


Tom Cruise cake in its shipping box

The cake was individually wrapped in plastic and tied with a green bow.

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I ordered the cake on December 18 and selected two-day shipping, which was an additional $35. There were also options for five-day delivery ($20) and six-day delivery (free). Unfortunately, due to high demand, you now need to join a waitlist for the cake on Goldbelly, although those in LA can still purchase it from Doan’s Bakery for the much cheaper cost of $66.

The dessert, which ships nationwide, was delivered frozen with dry ice. The cake itself was individually wrapped in plastic, topped with a bright-green bow, and tucked inside a Doan’s Bakery box.

I unwrapped the cake and stuck it in the fridge to defrost overnight.


Tom Cruise cake unwrapped

The cake from Doan’s Bakery serves 12 to 16 people.

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The hefty 10-inch cake — which serves 12-16 people and weighs 3 pounds — can last in the refrigerator for up to five days or in the freezer for four months.

Cobie Smulders told Jimmy Fallon in 2019 that she’ll “slowly chip away” at the dessert until March.

When my family and I first tried the cake, it was still pretty frozen.


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Slicing into the bundt cake.

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With its generous dusting of coconut flakes, the bundt cake makes for an angelic and festive centerpiece. But, at first, it was hard to appreciate the flavor.

This is already a dense and buttery cake, and it hadn’t fully defrosted after 24 hours in the fridge. Paired with the cream cheese frosting, the texture was really heavy. My parents and I weren’t super impressed, but we decided to hold our opinion and give the cake another day to fully defrost.

With each passing day, we liked the cake more and more.


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A slice of the white chocolate bundt cake.

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This is definitely a maximalist cake — something Doan said was always part of her ethos.

“I don’t skimp on ingredients,” she said during the Spectrum News 1 segment in 2021. “Everyone says, ‘Less is more, Karen,’ because I want to put more white chips. I want to put more coconut!”

I’m glad she didn’t listen when she created this cake recipe, especially when it came to the white chocolate chunks. Their texture adds just a hint of delicious crunch to the cake, and there’s a warmth to the flavor that helps cut through the intense punch of sweetness. The toasted flakes are also a nice touch, adding depth without giving each bite an overwhelming coconut flavor.

When I woke up for breakfast one morning this week, I found myself craving another slice of the cake. It had surprisingly grown on me. My parents agreed, although they’re not convinced it’s worth the price.

“I’d eat it again, if someone sent it as a gift,” my dad said.

You heard him, Tom!




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I went on a Mediterranean cruise in the winter and was pleasantly surprised. It’s the best season for this kind of travel.

When I found out that Windstar Cruises had begun winter sailings to the Mediterranean, I couldn’t book fast enough.

I’d visited France, Italy, and Greece during the summer months before, and I had grown increasingly disillusioned each year as Mediterranean Europe became more crowded, expensive, and uncomfortably hot.

It seemed like a January cruise would help me avoid a lot of my past grievances, so I booked Europe’s Winter Riviera eight-day itinerary on Windstar, sailing from Barcelona to Rome with stops in Nice, Genoa, and Livorno, the port city for excursions to Florence, Pisa, and Lucca.

After a week of seeing these iconic destinations in a whole new light, I went home with the conviction that winter is the absolute best time to take a Mediterranean cruise.

I loved feeling like I had the Mediterranean to myself


A wide shot of the Colosseum.

There weren’t too many crowds when we visited the Colosseum in Rome.

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Rather than stumbling through hordes of tourists filling Barcelona’s streets, trying to find towel space on a beach in Nice, or waiting hours in lines to enter the Vatican museums, I felt like I had a lot of memorable places to myself.

That’s probably because I visited during what Windstar calls the “Local Season,” the time between late fall and early spring, when this area typically welcomes far fewer tourists.

Fewer crowds and shorter lines meant I could see more of each city I visited throughout the cruise. I took all the time I liked exploring each place and capturing it all without having to erase throngs of people from my photos.

On one excursion, my small group climbed the medieval village of Èze on the French Riviera — a popular spot often filled with cruise passengers and tourists — and never saw another person. I loved taking in the sweeping views of the sea, unobstructed by massive cruise ships.

In Florence, no more than 20 people circled Michelangelo’s famous David statue. And in Rome, my husband and I purchased tickets to the Colosseum 15 minutes before our scheduled entry time and were allowed to enter even earlier.

We felt like VIPs with special access to the best of the region — quite different from the summer months when we had to wait for hours just to get close to an attraction.

Though we had to adapt to the weather, the special winter experiences were worth it


A wide shot of a port in Nice, France.

The weather was chillier than what we were used to at home, but it was easy to adapt.

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We may have escaped the sweltering heat the Riviera is famous for in the summer, but we did experience some chilly weather.

By our hometown of Houston’s standards, it was cold, with morning temperatures dipping into the 40s and afternoons hovering in the 50s — and we were not prepared. Luckily, hats and scarves were readily available and cost about 10 Euros, so we managed.

And, we had to give up some usual summer fun, including relaxing on the ship’s deck, which meant spending a bit more time indoors.

I really didn’t mind, though, especially since sailing during this season came with some special seasonal activities and spots.

Some winter itineraries include cities Windstar only visits (or spends extra time in) during winter, when there are typically fewer crowds and ships.

Another perk of cruising during the winter is the opportunity to experience seasonal events and activities.

For example, while docked in Nice, France, cruisers can travel less than an hour from the port to visit Menton’s Fête du Citron (Lemon Festival), held annually starting in mid-February. The two-week festival features giant floats and structures made of fruit, as well as performances, parades, markets, and more.

All in all, I think winter is the absolute best time to visit

As an added bonus, our winter sailing was hundreds of dollars cheaper than a similar one at peak season in June and July.

Of course, if your dreams of the Mediterranean include sunbathing on the beach or swimming in the sea, this isn’t the vacation for you.

But for me, the positives far outweighed the negatives. We got to see so much more than we could have during the summer months, without the crowds — and for that, I’ll pack a cozy hat and gloves any day.




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