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My twins had never spent more than a night apart. When one went to Europe for 6 weeks, they barely spoke.

My identical twin sons are 19 and have done everything together their whole lives. Same schools, same sports teams, same friends, same produce department at the grocery store. Until last month, they’d never spent more than a night or two apart.

Then Thomas got accepted for a two-week college placement in Italy, and his best friend Brad landed the same one. They decided to tack on another four weeks and travel Europe together. Charlie stayed home.

I helped Thomas plan his trip, giving him recommendations for cities to visit, tips on getting around, and more unsolicited advice than any 19-year-old wants from his dad. I probably talked about the trip more than he did.

Thomas sent Charlie 1 text in 6 weeks

I texted Thomas most days about his trip, and he replied to about a third of my questions, usually two or three days later. His updates were minimal. “Munich. Walked around, saw lots of stuff.” “Prague. Cool. Walked around. Cheap beer.” My wife said I should’ve known better than to expect detailed updates from a 19-year-old travelling Europe with his friend.

I expected the brothers would at least stay in touch, but Charlie heard from Thomas even less than I did. Only once.

Early one morning, our time, Thomas texted asking Charlie to log into his sports betting account and place some bets for him. Charlie was getting ready for work and said no. That was their entire communication for the trip.

Charlie didn’t want to see a single photo

Thomas sent me photos from across Europe, and I’d be happy to show them to Charlie. Every time he’d say he wasn’t interested, and if I tried to show him, he wouldn’t look up from his phone.


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The author’s twin with his friends. 

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With Thomas and Brad away, I half expected Charlie to feel the gap. His twin and their best mate were backpacking across Europe without him. But if Charlie felt anything, he didn’t show it. He picked up their shifts at the grocery store, hit the beach, saw his girlfriend, and went out with mates.

You wouldn’t have known anything was different. He never once asked about his brother’s trip.

But then Charlie checked a score he’d normally never care about

People have called them “Charlieandthomas” their whole lives, one word, like they’re a single person. So when they went six weeks barely exchanging a word, I found it strange.

But then, at dinner one night, I mentioned that Thomas had attended an Ajax match in Amsterdam the previous night. It finished 4-1. Charlie said he already knew. He’d checked the score as soon as he woke up that morning.

Charlie follows some soccer, but he wouldn’t normally care about an Ajax game. The only reason he’d check the result was to see if his brother saw an interesting match. He was keeping tabs, in his own way.


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The author’s twins have been known as “Charlieandthomas” 

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I’d worried about the silence at first. But the Ajax score changed the way I saw their six weeks apart. When you’ve shared every day of your life with someone, you don’t need to check in to prove you still care.

Thomas came home, and Charlie barely looked up

The night before Thomas landed, I asked Charlie if he was glad his brother was coming back. He shrugged and said not really. When I asked whether he thought Thomas might bring him a gift, “0%” was his response.

My wife and I were at the door when Thomas walked in, pulling him in for hugs and firing questions about the trip. Charlie was on the couch and didn’t get up.

After a while, Thomas reached into his bag and started pulling out gifts. Something for me, a few things for my wife, and then a cap for Charlie from Wolfsburg, his favourite European soccer team. Charlie tried to play it cool, but I could see the excitement on his face.

Six weeks of silence, one rejected betting text, zero interest in any photos, and yet Thomas knew exactly what gift to buy.

They were back at work together in the produce department the next day.




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I bunked with 3 strangers in a shared cabin on an overnight train in Europe. I’ll never do it again.

  • I spent 11 hours in a shared cabin on an overnight train from Vienna to Venice, Italy.
  • For less than $100, I got a bunk in a room of six beds with three other people.
  • I’ve traveled overnight on Amtrak, but in private rooms. I didn’t adjust well to the shared space.

My ride from Vienna to Venice, Italy, in October 2022 was bumpy, cramped, and awkward.

During a two-week trip through four European countries, I spent 11 hours bunking with three strangers in an overnight sleeper train.

While it was my first time traveling in a sleeper car in Europe, I’d spent 60 hours on overnight Amtrak trains in the 20-square-foot roomette and 45-square-foot bedroom accommodations, where I had private rooms.

I thought an overnight train would be the best way to travel through Europe so that I could explore more during the day. But the rough ride made sleeping hard, and I didn’t feel rested when I got to Venice.

I booked my ride with the Austrian Federal Railway’s OBB Nightjet.

The OBB Nightjet train as it arrives in Venice in 2022.

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OBB Nightjet — a rail line that operates overnight routes between Austria, Italy, France, and the Netherlands — can go as fast as 143 miles per hour.

Nightjet trains have regular assigned seats, couchette cars (seats that fold out into couches in shared cabins), and sleeper cars with bunks of four or six, which is what I booked. Some routes have private cabins, but mine didn’t.

This overnight leg of my European train trip, which came with breakfast, cost $44 with a Eurail pass. Without the pass, the ticket would have been about $84.


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The reporter’s Eurail pass on a European train.

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To travel by train, I bought a Eurail pass for $477, which gives access to most European trains for a set number of days. Some trains require only a Eurail pass, while others, including overnight trains, incur an additional discounted fare.

My journey began in Austria’s Wien Meidling train station.


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Inside the Wien Meidling train station in Austria.

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I arrived about an hour and a half before my 9:35 p.m. train so I’d have plenty of time to find the platform.

The departure screens said my train was going to Zurich. At the information desk, I learned that, unlike Amtrak, the train’s cars detach at various stations to go to different locations.


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Train car number two on the Nightjet.

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I’d need to board my assigned train car; each has a number.

I paid $10 to wait for my train in OBB’s lounge.


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Inside the OBB Nightjet lounge at Wien Meidling train station.

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The lounge is free for OBB first-class passengers traveling during the day and costs about $10 for all other OBB passengers. Since I didn’t see any empty seats in the rest of the station, I paid for it.

I was surprised to find I was the only one inside the lounge since the rest of the station was full of people. There were plenty of tables and chairs available.

The lounge served complimentary refreshments and snacks, from coffee to nuts and seeds.


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Refreshments in the OBB Nightjet lounge at Wien Meidling train station.

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It was a smaller selection than I’ve seen at Amtrak’s Metropolitan Lounge, which I’ve visited in New York, but I wasn’t hungry, so I just got a water bottle.

I went to the platform about 20 minutes before my train’s 9:35 p.m. departure.


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The train platform the reporter used at Wien Meidling train station.

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When the train arrived, I didn’t have time to check the car number before boarding. I just went to the closest car and asked an attendant for help.

Inside the sleeper cars, I saw narrow, dimly lit corridors full of small cabins with bunk beds.


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A corridor inside an OBB Nightjet sleeper car.

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An attendant led the way to my shared cabin.

My room had six bunks and a large window with a curtain. During my leg of the journey, one traveler was already there when I boarded, and two others arrived within an hour.


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The reporter gets settled inside her shared cabin.

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Two got off around 5 a.m., and the other stayed past my stop.

At 74 square feet, it felt like a tight space — especially with everyone’s luggage around. There was space for bags above the beds, but not enough for everyone.

I couldn’t imagine six people squeezing in there.

While my cabin was assigned, the beds were first-come, first-served.


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A view of the top bunks from the reporter’s bottom bunk.

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Since I’ve experienced more bumps on higher bunks on Amtrak trains, I chose a bottom bunk.

The train provided bed sheets and a pillow.


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Sheets for the beds inside the cabin.

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Although they weren’t as soft and cozy as the sheets on Amtrak trains, they were better than nothing.

Temperature and shared lighting controls were above the curtained door to enter the room.


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The door to the cabin with dials to control temperature and lighting above.

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My fellow passengers and I agreed to turn off the lights once everyone was settled into bed.

There was an outlet and a tiny nightstand on the side of each bunk, as well as night lights above the bed. Without curtains around each bunk, I thought I had no privacy.


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Lights and outlets in the Nightjet cabin.

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I longed for a way to close off my bunk for more personal space.

Other passengers in the room said hello to one another upon arrival, but otherwise, the room was quiet.


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Inside the shared cabin.

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Some of us watched our devices, while others went right to sleep.

Before bed, I used one of the two bathrooms for everyone in my sleeper car. I thought it was a typical train bathroom with a toilet and a sink.


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A bathroom inside the sleeper car.

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According to Nightjet’s website, only private sleeper cabins come with a shower.

When I was ready for bed, I watched TV before going to sleep. The bed was stiff and uncomfortable, in my opinion.


The author watches TV at night from her bunk.

The reporter’s view from her bed in the evening.

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I woke up several times during the night to other travelers entering and exiting the room, or due to the bumpiness of the train.

An attendant woke me up with breakfast at 8 a.m., about 20 minutes before my stop in Venice. I got two rolls of bread with butter, jam, and coffee to eat in my bunk.


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The reporter’s view with her breakfast in the morning.

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There was no café car or common area on board for passengers.

When I got off the train in Venice, I was exhausted from the lack of sleep. I thought it made my first day in the city less enjoyable.


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The OBB Nightjet arrives in Venice.

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“Offering our passengers a high level of travel comfort is an important concern for us,” a representative for OBB Nightjet told Business Insider. “We are constantly working on improvements to our product and also take into account the requirements of our customers.”

While sometimes it’s about the journey, not the destination, in this case, I’d rather arrive feeling refreshed so I can enjoy where I’m going. So, a year later, I booked a Nightjet private cabin to get from Venice to Vienna. That ride was far more comfortable, and I slept easily with no strangers in my cabin.




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I backpacked across Europe for 2 weeks. Here are the best things I packed and the items I wished I’d left at home.

  • I traveled by train through four European countries for two weeks with just a backpack.
  • I packed light, but there were some items I could have skipped to save room for souvenirs. 
  • I was glad I brought a tote and quick-dry clothing, but I wish I had brought fewer pairs of socks.

Two weeks, six cities, four countries, and one backpack.

In 2022, I spent two weeks living out of a backpack while traveling from NYC to Europe by plane and train.

I flew from NYC to Berlin and traveled by train from Berlin to Vienna, Rome, Milan, Venice, Italy, and Zurich.

I explored cities in each country on foot, taking photos and notes along the way. I also stayed in a variety of accommodations, from train bunks to unique Airbnbs and luxury hotels.

Packing for this trip was hard for me. It was the lightest I’d ever packed for the longest trip I’d ever taken. However, after a few practice packs, I was surprised to find that I could fit everything I truly needed in a single 32-liter backpack.

For this trip, I used a 32-liter backpack, the largest one I own, to hold everything I needed for two weeks.

Everything the author packed for her two-week trip to Europe.

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I packed my work computer, camera, and chargers; snacks, toiletries, and medications; one packing cube stuffed with clothing; and additional necessities, including a raincoat, a tote, and a pair of shower shoes.

While I longed for more outfit variety, I was glad I packed so little. I didn’t feel as weighed down by my backpack as I have on previous trips, so I had more energy throughout the day.

One of the most important things I packed was an all-in-one soap that cleans everything from clothes to bodies.


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The author washed clothing in her accommodations.

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When I pack light, I usually bring laundry sheets, which are small, dry, scented squares that resemble dryer sheets but are actually pads of laundry detergent that turn into a bubbly soap when mixed with water.

But I wanted to save more space on this trip, so I brought a 2-ounce bottle of Dr. Bronner’s Pure-Castille soap, which is an all-in-one soap that cleans everything from dishes to bodies. It also works as laundry soap.

I plan to travel with it from now on instead of laundry sheets and a separate container of body wash. 

Aside from Dr. Bronner’s soap, the most essential toiletries I made room for were my electric toothbrush and sea salt hairspray.


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The author’s packed toiletries.

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No matter how lightly I’m packing, I always make room for my electric toothbrush. Although I find it bulky, with a battery, charger, and case, maintaining my usual hygiene routine away from home makes me feel more comfortable while traveling.

Another necessity I packed was for my hair: the Sea Spray from Lush. I hate doing my hair. I like to just let it do what it wants, avoiding heat products and gels, but this hair product has my heart. Made from mostly natural ingredients, according to the Lush website, the spray adds texture and shine. I find that this product is easy for me to apply with just a few spritzes, and I think it always makes my hair look good with minimal effort. That’s why I never travel without it. 

I think I did a great job packing versatile clothing pieces that work well for travel.


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The author wears versatile pieces in Italy.

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I brought quick-dry shirts and pants made of thin, moisture-wicking materials, designed to dry quickly in the sun.

Most of my quick-drying clothes are from Under Armour or Prana and are good for exercise, but I thought they’d serve a dual purpose on this trip, considering my laundry strategy. I dried these articles on the balconies of hotel rooms and the porches of Airbnbs, and it never took longer than 20 minutes.

I was also satisfied with the versatility of the clothing I selected. With mostly neutral tones, like my gray T-shirt and navy sweater, as well as pops of color, every article I brought paired well with everything else.

I wore every combination of pieces to have as many different outfits as possible. While I still longed for more variety in my style abroad, I was impressed by how many outfits I was able to make with such a small selection. 

I was happy with the single pair of shoes I packed, which were black and gray sneakers.


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The author wears her black sneakers in Milan.

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I find that shoes take up quite a bit of room in my backpack, so I try to travel with just one pair. I thought these black and gray New Balance sneakers were the perfect everyday shoes for this trip because they were comfortable enough to walk around in all day without hurting my feet. And with a neutral color scheme, I think they looked good with every outfit.

I found that my slides were crucial for showers throughout my trip.


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The author brought slides for showering.

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Besides my pair of sneakers, I also brought a pair of rubber slides to wear in the shower.

Unless I’m at a nice hotel, I prefer to wear shoes in the shower when I’m traveling. I can be a bit of a germaphobe, so having a layer of protection between my feet and the floor makes me feel at ease in places like the outdoor shower at my Airbnb in Switzerland or the tiny home hotel in Germany, where the toilet and shower shared the same floor. 

The weather on my trip ranged from 40 to 80 degrees Fahrenheit, so I was glad I brought a windbreaker.


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The author wears her windbreaker in Switzerland.

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My Members Only jacket is my go-to travel jacket in the fall, and I thought it was the perfect pick for this trip, as it’s comfortable in various temperatures. Since this jacket is a little big on me, I was able to fit long-sleeved layers underneath on cooler days. And it’s black, so I think it goes with everything.

It also has four pockets, one of which is hidden on the inside. I used that pocket to hold essentials, such as my phone, while walking around each city. 

I packed a rain jacket, too, which came in handy when it rained in Vienna and Switzerland.


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The author wears a rain jacket in Vienna.

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I checked the forecast during the week leading up to my trip and saw that some locations were expecting rain. I packed my smallest rain jacket so I could wear it alone on warmer rainy days and layer it underneath my windbreaker on cooler days. 

I caught the most rain of the trip during my second day in Vienna. Although it was pouring, I was able to walk around the city all day and stay relatively dry thanks to the jacket. When it cooled down at night, I wore my windbreaker over the rain jacket and felt cozy.

I also packed a tote bag in my backpack to separate some items for easier access during my travels, like my notebook and camera.


The author carries her tote bag in Rome.

The author carries her tote bag in Rome.

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On travel days, I used a tote to separate and hold personal belongings I wanted quick access to, so I could stuff my backpack into the overhead bins of planes and trains.

This made it easy to quickly find items I needed, such as my headphones, while keeping my bulky backpack out of the way. By stowing my backpack on the shelf above me, I was able to maximize legroom, too.

On non-travel days, I left my backpack at my hotel or Airbnb and explored with a lighter load in the tote. The tote was large enough to fit all the essentials for a day out on the town, including my camera. 

Having an outlet adapter was essential for charging my devices.


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European plug to US plug converter.

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Different countries have different outlet ports, so my outlet adapter was one of the most important items in my backpack. One side has a European plug, and the other has a US outlet port. On the bottom, there are four USB ports.

I brought my iPad, phone, laptop, and camera on this trip, and I was able to charge all of them at once with this device.

To keep myself entertained during flights and train rides, I brought my iPad for reading, watching TV, and drawing.


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The author watches TV on her iPad on an overnight train.

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I bought several e-books on my iPad to read as much as I wanted during the trip, and to avoid bringing physical books that would take up too much space.

Before my trip, I downloaded some guidebooks for each country I visited. As I made my way to each destination, I read about the sights that awaited me. These books helped me decide how to spend my time in each location and built up my excitement for my coming adventures. 

During my trip, I downloaded a few episodes of my favorite TV shows to bring me comfort when I felt homesick, which was usually around bedtime. I also used my iPad to draw cover art for my band with the Procreate app, so I spent some time sketching designs for our coming singles. Watching TV and engaging in hobbies that I enjoy at home made me feel more grounded while traveling.

I packed my film camera and my digital camera. I was glad I made room for both.


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The author’s film camera (left) and a photo she took with it in Switzerland (right).

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While I take photos digitally for work, I shoot and develop film as a hobby. For me, this includes manually loading film into a mechanical camera and taking my time with each shot before developing the negatives in my kitchen using a combination of chemicals. 

I hadn’t brought my film camera on previous work trips, but since Europe was my longest adventure yet, I packed my Minolta Autocord to help me find a work-life balance by taking film photos just for myself.

When I was in work mode, I shot digitally, and during my breaks, I took pictures with my film camera. This made me feel so much more creative during my trip, and I think I got some great photos. Although this camera is quite heavy for its size, I thought it was worth bringing to feel inspired and maintain an artistic mindset throughout my European adventure. 

Bringing snacks and meal bars helped me save money while traveling.


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The author recommends packing your own snacks for long trips.

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Packing meal bars and snacks for travel days helped me save money I would have spent on munchies in airports and train stations. 

During my 8-hour flight from NYC to Berlin, I saved money on an in-flight meal by consuming an entire bag of Combos. On busy days spent exploring, I often had RX bars for breakfast or lunch to save money and keep me energized. 

However, I also think it’s important to try local cuisines while traveling to new places, so I maintained a balance of meal bars and dining out during my trip.

There were a few items I could have left behind to make my bag even lighter. For my next work trip, I’ll leave some camera gear at home.


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The author could have left some gear at home.

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I brought way too much film for this trip. I packed eight rolls and only shot four of them due to some rainy days. I was also surprised by how easily I could buy film in Europe. If I’d needed more, I could have stopped at one of the many film stores I passed in Vienna and Berlin. In Vienna, I even spotted a film vending machine on the street.

Because I overestimated the number of film pictures I’d take, next time, especially if I’m traveling to Europe, I’ll bring half the film I think I’ll use.

I find that rolls of film feel bulky in my bag if I have too many, but my camera lenses feel even bulkier. I brought two lenses for my digital camera: a zoom lens and a fixed wide-angle lens. I think I could have just brought the zoom lens.

I brought a maxi dress for more formal settings, but found it wasn’t very versatile.


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The author wears a dress in Rome.

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I brought a maxi dress for days when I wanted to dress formally. But apart from different jackets over top, my dress looked the same to me every time I wore it. And since it was so long, I thought it took up the amount of space in my packing cube that a pair of shorts and a couple more shirts could have taken.

Replacing the dress with a pair of nice shorts and some blouses would have provided me with more versatile outfits.

Since I spent two nights in most of the locations I visited, I had ample time to dry my socks after washing them, so I wish I’d brought fewer pairs.


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The author’s 10 pairs of socks she brought to Europe.

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I brought 10 pairs of socks for my two-week trip since I’d had trouble drying my socks in just one night on previous trips, leaving me wishing I had packed more.

But since I booked two nights in most of the cities I visited in Europe, I found I had plenty of time to dry my socks. I probably could have done with six pairs to leave more room in my bag for small souvenirs. 

Packing so lightly allowed me to bring home some small souvenirs, like 3D puzzles and tiny sculptures. Next time, I’ll save even more space for treasures I find along the way.


3D puzzles and other small souvenirs the author picked up during her trip.

The author brought home a few souvenirs.

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Apart from having less stuff to keep track of and less weight on my back, the best part of packing so lightly was saving room for trinkets to remind me of my trip.

In Vienna and Zurich, I bought tiny framed paintings of landscapes to display on my desk at home. In Venice, I purchased three 3D puzzles, which came in small, flat packs, to put together and display once I got home. I also picked up a few other flat items I like to collect that slid easily into my backpack, like bookmarks and a thin, paperback photo book. 

With so many reminders of my European adventure scattered around my apartment in NYC, I think having fewer belongings during my journey was worth gaining extra space to bring a piece of each place home with me. And next time, I’ll pack even lighter. 




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I visited an underrated city in Sweden before heading to Copenhagen, and it ended up being a highlight of my Europe trip

  • I visited Copenhagen over the summer, but I added one night in Malmö, Sweden, to the trip.
  • The city just across the water from Copenhagen was one of the highlights of my entire trip.
  • I thought it offered a peek at true Scandinavian living.

For me, the most stressful part of planning a trip is narrowing down what I want to see, especially when I’m traveling to new countries.

I never want to miss out on anything, and when you only get a few days in a place, there’s no way to see everything. If I’m going somewhere I’m not sure I’ll get to visit again, I feel even more pressure to make the perfect itinerary.

I faced that exact conundrum when trying to decide which part of Sweden to visit as part of a trip to nearby Copenhagen, Denmark.

When I visited Copenhagen over the summer, I knew I also wanted to see some of Sweden.

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In August, my husband and I set off for a trip to Scandinavia to go to a wedding in the small city of Helsingborg, Sweden. We planned to spend the majority of our trip in Copenhagen, as we were flying in and out of the Danish city since Helsingborg and Copenhagen are only about an hour and 20 minutes away from each other via train.

Still, we wanted to see a bit of Sweden during our journey, and we knew we wouldn’t have a ton of time to sightsee in Helsingborg because of the wedding. We also didn’t want to have to take a separate flight or spend a full day traveling, which ruled out Stockholm on the other side of the country.

After doing some research, we decided to spend one day and one night in Malmö, Sweden. Malmö is the third-largest city in Sweden and one of the country’s fastest-growing cities. I liked the idea of going somewhere that could offer a true glimpse at Swedish culture, and it was extremely convenient to get there.

Adding a day in Malmö to our itinerary seemed like a no-brainer.

Going to and from Malmö via train was a breeze.


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I took a train to Malmö.

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My husband and I took the train from Helsingborg to Malmö on a Monday morning, which took about 40 minutes. We also took the train from Malmö to Copenhagen the following morning, which was only a 20-minute ride.

The train couldn’t have been easier. It ran in frequent increments, so we just bought tickets upon arrival at the station. It was lovely not to have to plan that part of our journey in advance.

The train was fairly crowded with commuters, but we still managed to find space for ourselves and our luggage.

I stayed at MJ’s, which was just a 10-minute walk from the train station.


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I stayed at MJ’s.

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I considered a few different hotels in Malmö when planning our trip, but I settled on MJ’s fairly quickly. I appreciated that the boutique hotel was just 10 minutes from the train station and within walking distance to restaurants and bars.

The interior also has a floral, pink aesthetic, which appealed to me, and it was in my budget. A one-night stay in a small room cost 1,630 Swedish krona, which was about $170 when I booked our stay.

Walking to MJ’s from the train was easy, even with the luggage my husband and I were toting, and I loved the look of the hotel from the outside.

I couldn’t wait to see the hotel’s courtyard, which I had been ogling online.


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The hotel had a pink courtyard.

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One of the things I was most excited about at MJ’s was its interior courtyard, designed for guests to dine and spend time together. It’s covered by a glass dome that features greenery for a touch of whimsy, and its pink walls give it a chic and romantic feel.

It was just as pretty in person as it was in the photos I saw online. When we arrived at the hotel, I saw people dining and chatting under tables with umbrellas.

I loved that the upper floors at MJ’s had open windows that overlooked it, so we could catch glimpses as we walked to and from our room.

I was delighted by how big my room was.


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We stayed in a small room at MJ’s.

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I selected a small room at MJ’s for our stay, figuring we could handle limited space for just one night.

However, to my surprise, the room was large. It had a seating area by the front door, a large bed, and room for a desk and a wardrobe. Likewise, the bathroom featured a large vanity and tub.

I couldn’t believe how much space we got for the price I paid.

I was immediately smitten with how quaint and whimsical Malmö is.


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A street in Malmö.

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For our day in Malmö, I didn’t create a strict itinerary. I mostly planned to wander the city with my husband, hoping to get a feel for what life in Sweden was like.

I was so glad I kept our schedule loose as we started exploring Malmö, as every street we turned down was beautiful and made me want to see more.

From the brick roads and cobblestone sidewalks to the colorful homes lining the streets, I couldn’t get over how stunning the city was. Greenery grew on many of the homes we passed, and restaurants and shops were often situated in courtyards, creating a sense of community from the architecture alone.

It was also easy for us to travel on foot everywhere we went, as biking and walking are popular forms of transportation there.

A visit to Malmö Saluhall was a highlight of the day.


Flowers sit outside a food hall. People enter the space and look around.

I dined at Malmö Saluhall.

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After visiting Malmö Castle, a popular tourist destination in the city, we stopped for lunch at Malmö Saluhall, a food hall offering a diverse array of dining options.

There was a flower market set up outside it when we arrived, and when we walked in, there were stands with almost any food you could think of. I saw other tourists like me milling around, but there were also Malmö residents who had come to eat on their lunch break.

We feasted on Italian-inspired crostinis before stopping by another booth for pastries and coffee. Everything was, unsurprisingly, delicious, and I loved that the meal came with a side of people-watching.

I found more whimsy at Folkets Park.


A side-by-side of two images of a park with pink, yellow, and orange decor inside it.

Folkets Park was a fun stop.

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After lunch, we made our way to Folkets Park, a family-friendly green space renowned for its vibrant and eclectic installations. There are also performances held there.

There were colorful playgrounds, oversize chairs, and shops inside. It was quiet since we were there during a school day, but I could imagine the area would be packed on weekends.

The colorful design felt so novel compared to the neutral colors I see at most American parks. I could have stayed there for hours.

I felt like I was getting a real glimpse at Swedish culture as I wandered through the city.


A cobblestone street with people walking and biking through it. Restaurants and shops are nearby.

I wandered the streets of Malmö.

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We spent the rest of the afternoon walking around the city, popping into shops and sitting on benches to take in the sights. I was charmed by the bookstores, flower shops, and thrift stores we entered, and it was fun to see locals and other tourists exploring the area.

I could tell the city was designed to be friendly to tourists, finding English writing nearly everywhere, but it still felt quintessentially European thanks to its architectural style.

I also spotted people sitting at cafés enjoying fika, a traditional Swedish snack break, in the afternoon. I loved catching a glimpse at a customary aspect of Swedish culture.

My favorite part of the day was people-watching during happy hour.


A woman holds up a beer and smiles as she sits on an outdoor patio surrounded by other bars. A blanket sits on the chair next to her, and there are heaters around.

Happy hour was one of the best parts of the trip.

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Before we grabbed dinner, my husband and I decided to sit at one of the many outdoor patios in Malmö, as we wanted to enjoy the city’s ambiance.

We stopped at Mello Yello, a bar located in Lilla Torg, a square in the heart of the city, just a one-minute walk from MJ’s.

As I sipped on a beer, I watched coworkers gather for happy hours, families walk to early dinners, and friends meet up after long work days. The atmosphere was unhurried and communal throughout the square. It felt like we could sit for hours, and the staff would be happy to have us.

I also got to eat the cutest affogato I’ve ever seen.


A tray with ice cream and a cup of espresso sit on a table.

I loved my dessert.

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After drinks, we spent the evening eating dinner, wandering through more squares, and grabbing dessert at Verde Gelato on our way back to our hotel.

My husband and I both love affogatos, so we would have loved them even if they came in plastic cups. Still, the adorable wooden tray and glass serveware made it even sweeter. The aesthetically pleasing touch was in perfect alignment with every other experience we had in Malmö that day, adding to its charm.

We ate them at bistro tables outside the shop, grinning at each other over bites of espresso-gelato goodness.

The city’s location on the water made it even more beautiful.


Brick buildings line a bay at sunset.

The views of the water were stunning.

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We were lucky enough to be in Sweden in late August, when the sun doesn’t set until around 9 p.m.

We took advantage of the brightness by taking a walk along the edge of the Öresund Strait, which separates Denmark and Sweden, as the sun went down. We had crossed over it on our train ride into Sweden, but it felt even more romantic and quaint up close.

When we returned to MJ’s after dark, the bar in the lobby had a party-like atmosphere going. I appreciated the fun energy, as well as the fact that our room was quiet a few floors up, allowing us to get a peaceful night of rest even as people mingled downstairs.

To top it off, the breakfast buffet at MJ’s was top-notch.


A plate of breakfast foods and beverages on a table.

My breakfast was phenomenal.

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The elaborate breakfast spreads at all the hotels I stayed at in Europe amazed me, but MJ’s was among my favorites, and not just because I got to eat it in the pink patio.

There was fresh fruit, eggs, bacon, all sorts of pastries, and a parfait bar. I served myself a bit of everything, and I sipped coffee out of an adorable mug I wished I could take home with me.

It was the perfect end to our stay at MJ’s.

If you’re heading to Copenhagen, I highly recommend adding Malmö to your itinerary.


A woman smiles on a cobblestone street surrounded by colorful buildings.

I loved my day in Malmö.

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My 24 hours in Malmö were among the most relaxing of my weeklong trip to Europe.

I was enchanted by the city’s architecture, green spaces, divine food, and charming restaurants. I loved my time in Copenhagen, too, but I thought Malmö offered a slightly slower pace that was more indicative of Scandinavian culture outside the bustling metropolis. I found myself wishing we had stayed there for longer than just a day.

If you’re hoping to visit Sweden on a trip to Copenhagen, I think Malmö is the perfect way to do it.




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