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A weight loss doctor, who specializes in helping high performers, shares her favorite hack to eat healthy without tracking every bite

On a recent trip to France, Dr. Meghan Garcia-Webb was struck by an age-old paradox.

Everywhere she looked, she saw people enjoying cheese, wine, and bread — yet the average person seemed much healthier than the typical American.

In France, despite their reputation for rich cuisine, the obesity rate is a fraction of what we see in the United States, for all our calorie-counting and protein maxxing.

“There isn’t this pervasive diet culture of going to a restaurant and seeing how many calories are in this and how many carbs,” Garcia-Webb told Business Insider. “I do find it is refreshing in the sense that there’s not this fear around food, and the food is very satisfying.”

It’s just one example of how stressing less about your diet can lead to better weight loss and long-term health, she said.

In her concierge medicine practice, Garcia-Webb specializes in helping high achievers, such as CEOs and attorneys, manage their weight. A lot of her job is pushing back on extreme diet fads, including the trend of tracking everything.

“I really enjoy food and the more I do this work, the more compelled I feel to show people that it actually is possible to be healthy and really like to eat,” she said.

Garcia-Webb said her favorite food hack makes it easy to eat well without turning your food journal into a full-time job. Here’s how to try it at home for more nutritious meals.

A stress-free guide to healthy eating

Everyone loves a food hack, and Garcia-Webb said hers is simple: when you prepare a meal, start by making half the plate fruits and non-starchy vegetables.


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Filling half your plate with produce is a simple way to eat well without measuring each bite, calorie, or gram of protein.

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“It’s actually very easy,” she said. “You don’t even have to cook them if you don’t want to.”

Think carrots, cucumbers, peppers, greens, tomatoes, berries, grapes, citrus — anything you’d find in the produce aisle (except potatoes). To make it even easier, opt for pre-cut options that are ready to eat or frozen produce, which is as healthy as fresh.

From there, Garcia-Webb builds a full meal by adding a source of protein, like lean meats or fish, to fill another quarter of the plate. The last quarter of the plate is for starchy foods like whole grains, pasta, rice, or potatoes.

The strategy makes it simple to get five servings a day of fruits and veggies. Each serving is about a handful when you’re eyeballing it.

As you fill up on produce, the high-volume, high-fiber food keeps you full and satisfied after eating, so you’re less likely to reach for junk food later. That means you’ll find yourself eating healthier without having to count a single calorie or even measure a portion.

When to track your food for weight loss

There’s nothing inherently wrong with tracking your eating habits, and calculating every gram of protein is fine if that works for you.

Still, for most people, too much tracking can be a burden, taking away the enjoyment of food and making you less likely to stick to your healthy habits long-term.

Instead of trying to track everything you eat forever, Garcia-Webb recommends keeping a food log for a few days: it can give you a baseline sense of your current habits and what you can change to move toward your goals.

“You build this intuitive knowledge, and then you have a rough sense of what it looks like for you,” she said.

A temporary habit of food tracking can be helpful if you feel like you’re doing everything right and wonder why you aren’t losing weight.


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Food labels can mislead you by making a processed snack seem healthy because of added protein, but sneaking in extra sugars.

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Garcia-Webb said if you’ve never tracked your habits, it’s common to eat more and exercise less than you realize.

These days, plenty of convenience foods disguise ultra-processed junk with a “health halo” of added protein or other nutrients to make you believe you’re making a nutritious choice.

“People think that they’re eating healthier than they are,” Garcia-Webb said. “Something that we can all fall prey to is very good marketing.”




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Three generations live next door — and it’s helping this family afford both housing and elder care

Lauren McCadney had always wanted to live next door to friends or family. In her late 50s, she finally made that happen, though not the way she’d planned.

In 2020, Lauren’s mother, who had been living with her brother and his family in Frederick, Maryland, died. Lauren, who was going through a difficult divorce and doesn’t have children, decided she wanted to be closer to her family and help her brother care for their dad, who was dealing with his own health challenges.

In 2021, she moved from her home in Chicago to Maryland, renting a house a few blocks away from her brother, James, her sister-in-law, Lorri, and twin 20-year-old nephews, Drew and Carter. In 2023, the five-bedroom house next door to James and Lorri went on the market, and Lauren bought it and moved in with her sister, Cheryl.


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Seven family members across three generations live next door.

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Now the seven family members live between the two houses, sharing caregiving responsibilities for James Sr., the family patriarch, and forming what they call a family compound.

Multigenerational living was once the norm in the US. Before World War II, it was almost unheard of for older adults to live independently or to receive care outside their families, while younger people often waited until marriage to move out. That changed for millions of American families as they lived farther apart, independent living services for older people became more accessible, and more women joined the workforce.

Now, as the costs of housing, long-term care for seniors, and childcare soar, that trend is beginning to reverse. The McCadneys are one of a growing number of American families moving back in together — or never separating in the first place. The number of people in the US living in multigenerational households — those with two or more adult generations — quadrupled between 1971 and 2021, according to Pew Research.

“I feel very blessed and fortunate that we have the situation we have,” Lauren said, “because I have friends who are the primary solo caregiver, and that is hard.”


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The McCadneys split caregiving duties and expenses.

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Sharing caregiving and expenses

The McCadney family splits caregiving duties — and everyone saves money in their arrangement.

Lauren, who retired from her career in tech marketing in 2024, renovated her house to suit her family’s needs, refinishing the basement into a separate living space for Cheryl and making the first floor accessible for their father, who has a neurological condition that makes walking difficult and affects his memory.

Cheryl, who pays below-market rent, takes care of Lauren’s dog while she’s on vacation. Their brother manages most of their father’s personal and medical care, while Cheryl spends a lot of time with him during the day. Lauren likes to take her father, who uses a scooter, to restaurants, breweries, and concerts.

When any family member goes on vacation or is otherwise occupied, they know another family member will be there to take care of the elder James.

By not putting the elder James in assisted living or a nursing home, the family is saving significant sums. “Unless you’re a billionaire, I don’t think that most people have the luxury of saying cost is not a consideration,” Lauren said.


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The family is saving a significant amount of money by taking care of the elder James at home.

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They also appreciate the peace of mind that comes from knowing their dad is being cared for by family. Plus, James Sr. wasn’t keen on moving into a facility.

“We know that he’s going to get much better care, and from a socialization perspective, from a stimulation perspective, from having a reason to get out of bed perspective,” Lauren said. “That’s something you cannot put a price on.”

Drew and Carter, who save on rent by living at home, also chip in, including by helping Lauren. They mow their aunt’s lawn, give her rides to the airport, and recently drove her to and from eye surgery.

“I do love that my boys have lived their formative years in a multigenerational household,” said Lorri, who’s a teacher. “It is, hopefully, clear to them that love is an action.”

Navigating challenges and an uncertain future

There are real challenges with caring for an aging family member. The siblings don’t have as much flexibility or privacy as they otherwise would. Cheryl said that before she moved in with Lauren, she “had grown accustomed to living alone and having flexibility to decide when to or not to interact with others.” Living with family has changed that.


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The family aims to strike a balance between all three generations.

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James and Lorri are sandwiched between caring for their kids and their parents, all while juggling full-time jobs. Even as the couple is on the precipice of becoming empty-nesters, they’re responsible for someone who’s ever more dependent on them.

“I know there are times when James is exhausted and or frustrated,” Lorri said, “and as his wife, that’s hard to watch.”

James, who works for Maryland’s Department of Human Services, said there’s a constant balance to strike in doing right by all of his family members.

“Am I taking anything away from my children, or did I take anything away from them?” he said. “We hope that we’re doing all the right things.”


Lauuren McCadney and family.

Multigenerational living is on the rise.

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The McCadneys don’t know how long they’ll stay where they are. Lauren’s house requires a lot of maintenance that she’d rather not have to deal with as she ages. Lorri and James hope to someday downsize and spend more time at the beach in their travel trailer. As long as the elder James is living with them, the couple said they’ll stay in their home.

Lauren doesn’t know who will take care of her when she’s older. She and her friends talk about buying a piece of land and building several small homes on it, creating their own communal living arrangement where they could share a caregiver and help each other out.

“A lot of my friends are sitting around right now having this conversation, which is, ‘We don’t have kids, who’s taking care of us? How do we do this?'” she said.

While so much about the future is uncertain, she’s taking one day at a time for now.

“I’m just happy that everything works for right now,” she said.




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I’m helping my mom move to a small place. It has made me realize that at 46, I already have too much stuff.

I’ve seen multiple articles lately about the boomer avalanche — all this stuff people have — and their kids not wanting it. I’m not a boomer, but at 46, I’m already aware that I have too much stuff.

Three recent events made me think about the burden our possessions would place on our kids if something happened to us. So I started decluttering so they don’t have to deal with my stuff.

I helped my mom downsize

The first event was helping my mom downsize.

She moved from a 2,000-square-foot townhome into a much smaller rental home. Doing a pre-move assessment, it was clear that all her stuff wouldn’t fit in the new place.


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The author’s mom downsized from a two-story, 2,000+ square-foot townhome to a 900-square-foot home.

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She saw it as an opportunity and spent two months purging, donating, and selling items.

When scoping out storage spots in her new home, my mom shared that she has a stack of boxes of stuff from her mom’s house. She doesn’t want it, but doesn’t feel like she can get rid of it, and has been holding onto it since her mom passed over 10 years ago.

My kids made sure grandma didn’t get rid of her little rocking chair. They both have memories of climbing on it at Grandma’s house. It’s now in our living room.

Sometimes, there are memories wrapped up in stuff

Decorating our house for the holidays was the second event that confirmed we have too much stuff.

Every year, my husband goes into our crawl space and hauls out a full 19 boxes of holiday decor — trees, lights, ceramic villages, wrapping paper. Our house ends up covered with holidays.


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This holiday season, the author started a new tradition, donating decorations her family no longer uses.

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This year, when decorating, I decided to downsize and packed a giant box with ornaments, tablecloths, mugs, and random decorations we haven’t put up in years.

During this process, I was reminded how important it is to check before donating. My husband noticed a few decorations from his mom in the “donation box.” We’re keeping them. We may not display them, but there are memories in those figurines.

I asked my kids what they wanted us to keep for them. Stockings, our Advent calendar, and the holiday village — each of them had items they associated with their holiday memories. These things will never go into the donation box.

Our stuff can be so valuable to others

During our remodel last year — event three — my youngest and I learned how much the things we have sitting on a shelf can mean to someone else. My child’s donation of stuffed animals made a huge difference to volunteers and children at a local soup kitchen.


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The author says she has way too many tablecloths.

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We had a repeat experience this year, but this time with tablecloths. I have too many tablecloths. The last count was over 20. Even if I can’t get laundry done for weeks, that is many more than we need. I challenged myself to get rid of half of them.

A friend who volunteers at a shelter and soup kitchen happily took the donation. A few weeks later, we learned those tablecloths had a new life as blankets for a family of four who were living in their car at the time.

I have a process to downsize my wardrobe

Remodeling our house was the most eye-opening demonstration of how many things we have. Our storage space is still crammed with stuff that didn’t make it back into the house after the remodel.

Finding a place for everything during the renovation was a huge challenge. We quickly realized we couldn’t fit 50% of our belongings (three bedrooms and my office) in the other 50% of our house.


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Hooking hangers on seat belts maximized space and kept the clothes in place when driving.

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Taking up the most space — the items in my closet, which filled my entire soccer-mom-sized SUV.

So today, for every new thing I add, I donate at least two items. I’ve designated a section of my closet for things I haven’t worn, and when the seasons change, anything in that section goes. And — the most fun — I invite friends to come “shop” in my closet.

Some things are my memories, not my kids’

In my office are multiple items that remind me of my grandma.

One of my favorite memories is being at her house, spending hours poring over her high school and college yearbooks.


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Yearbooks from my grandma’s high school and college years are items I won’t be getting rid of.

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When it was clear the end was near for her, she had me take those yearbooks from the nursing home. She barely remembered who she was, but she remembered how much those books meant to me.

Seeing those yearbooks evokes memories of her, keeping her alive in my mind. But they are my memories of her, not my kids’.

And that’s really the thing, isn’t it? Wrapped up in all this stuff are memories and maybe a bit of guilt about getting rid of it.

So, I will keep cleaning out that closet, clearing out the storage unit, and reducing our holiday decor, but one day, my kids may have to get rid of those yearbooks.




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I’m 57 and helping raise my 6 grandchildren in a crowded multigenerational home. I thought my life would be easier by now.

I turned 57 this year. I always thought that by this point in my life, I would be taking bucket-list trips, tending a garden, and writing the novel I’ve always known was in me. Instead, my days are filled with wiping noses and every surface imaginable while keeping tabs on everything from medications to musical instruments.

My husband and I now live with our adult daughter and her six children, and because it makes the most sense, I take care of the kids, the house, the dog, and everything else while the other two adults go to work.

One day, when my daughter had to take five hours of mandatory overtime, and I was losing my cool at hour 10 of juggling meltdowns and messes, it hit me. I wasn’t the fun, easygoing, they-grow-up-so-fast-so-nothing-is-worth-getting-upset-about Grammie anymore. I had become the person holding everything together, and if nothing changed, I was going to burn out.

My busy mornings show how much I care for my grandkids

On a typical morning, I hit the ground running at 6 a.m. My daughter is able to take the first grader to the bus stop before work, so I’m “only” responsible for five kiddos most mornings.

After getting myself dressed and ready, I take the dog out and feed him, and then get my oldest grandson ready for the bus that picks him up at our door.

By then, the two preschoolers are awake, which means diaper changes and getting everyone dressed and fed. The middle schoolers need to be up, dressed in clean clothing (which is a bigger struggle than you’d think), and out the door on time. Somewhere in there, I’ll manage a cup of coffee and some sort of breakfast before we settle into the rest of our daily routine.

That’s when everything goes as it should. But when the 14-year-old misplaces his headphones, the dog gets frantic because of an early morning Amazon delivery, and the commotion wakes the toddler, it can feel like there’s no way I’ll make it through the day. Even then, the work doesn’t end when the workday does. It simply shifts into a different part of the day.

Loving my family doesn’t make the daily weight any lighter

I would take a bullet for every single member of my family. But the load is heavy, and I carry a lot of guilt for the moments I mourn the version of midlife I thought I would live.

It’s not that my daughter or my grandchildren are a burden; they’ve all been through more heartache and struggle than most people could imagine, and I’m so thankful we can provide emotional support.

But I’d be lying if I said I don’t sometimes long for the clean, quiet home I used to wake up to. My longing for that other life sometimes admittedly makes me cranky with my grandkids.

I had to change the way I showed up, or I wasn’t going to make it

A series of steps helped me change the way I show up without breaking myself down. I set an (almost) concrete bedtime for myself, completing tasks, chores, and self-care by 9 p.m. This gives me a little time to read or catch a podcast before getting to sleep at a decent hour.

The extra rest also allows me to get up a little earlier. Now, I have at least 30 minutes of quiet alone time while everyone else is still sleeping. It helps me start the day feeling grounded, rather than immediately pouring from an empty cup. I’ve experienced a huge shift in my attitude, and it seems to set the tone for everyone.

I’ve also started following some of the life advice I often give to the kids, like “Done is better than perfect.” I’m working on not holding myself to expectations I would never put on others. While I still won’t allow things to pile up until they’re unmanageable, I’m learning to be OK with leaving a load of laundry in the dryer for tomorrow.

Helping raise six grandchildren has reshaped my understanding of midlife

If there’s one thing I’ve learned in my nearly six decades on this planet, it’s that life rarely goes as planned. Letting go of dreams is tough, especially when we’re sold a picture of how midlife ought to look — but whether it defines you is your choice.

I’m choosing to embrace my current purpose and see the significance in helping to shape the hearts and minds of six amazing human beings.

This chapter of my life is messy, exhausting, noisy, and chaotic. But at the heart of it all is unconditional love, and the simple truth I carry with me is that there’s nowhere else I’d rather be.




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How AI is helping these solopreneurs build more personal membership communities — with less work

A community is a dedicated space where customers connect with each other for ongoing support, learning, and shared identity. For companies, it’s a way to build loyalty, gather real-time insight, and deliver deeper value beyond a product or service.

What sets a community apart from a static knowledge base is the personalized support members receive. While that level of service used to come at a high operational cost, AI makes it easier and more impactful for three solopreneurs who spoke with Business Insider about running their own membership communities.


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Gabriela Fiorentino is the founder of Nest Earth.

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“I can be even more present inside of my community,” said Gabriela Fiorentino, founder of Nest Earth, a community that helps parents integrate sustainable choices into family life. “It’s like having an assistant without having to pay for the assistant,” she added.

Here’s how three solopreneurs running communities use AI to reduce cognitive and operational load so they can create stronger member experiences.

This article is part of The AI-Powered Solopreneur series. Read more.

AI streamlines personalized offerings

Clara Ma, founder of Ask a Chief of Staff, a community serving executives in chief of staff roles, loves meeting with members one-on-one to answer their personal questions, but only has limited time to do so.

Before, she often found herself on calls repeating generic information that was already available within the community. Now, she asks members to share their questions ahead of calls, then uses the integrated AI in Slack—where her community connects and has conversations—to ask what resources already exist related to those questions.


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Clara Ma is the founder of Ask a Chief of Staff.

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“I can pull up three to five resources immediately and say, ‘Let’s look at this first, and then if your question still isn’t answered or you want to personalize the chat a little bit more to you, I can do that better because we’re on the same page about what is already available to you,'” Ma said.

She also used Slack Workflows to help her build out an automated process for member onboarding. Based on whether they’re an aspiring chief of staff, a current chief of staff, or a mentor within the community, they get a slightly different and personalized message welcoming them into the community and giving them some next steps on how to engage. This creates a curated experience from day one without a heavy manual lift for Ma. Onboarding tasks now take about an hour per week as opposed to a couple of hours per day before AI, she said.


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Lis Best is the founder of Girls Club Collective.

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For Lis Best—founder of Girls Club Collective, a community for impact leaders and entrepreneurs—the biggest value in using AI has been more mental capacity to dedicate to what matters most to her.

“I can use my creative brainpower more on facilitation and on one-on-one member support and less on rewriting an email sequence for the 12th time,” she said.

For instance, she has recently used ChatGPT to help her improve the website positioning and suggest email sequences for potential new members, reducing her time spent on growing her community so she can spend more time engaging with it.

AI offers research-backed strategy suggestions

Beyond one-on-one interactions, community-based businesses also offer broader programming like workshops, expert sessions, and connection opportunities. Ideally, these offerings reflect what members actually want—and AI makes it far easier for solopreneurs to identify those needs at scale.

Before AI, Ma used to rely on intuition or hours of manual work to understand member preferences, reading months of community Slack conversations and trying to mentally catalog themes. Now, AI synthesizes data from member conversations, newsletter open rates, and workshop engagement to inform decisions about which events or member offerings to prioritize.

“It unlocks a lot more information a lot faster so that we can make better decisions,” Ma said. “I used to hem and haw about what programming we should do. Now I have the data, and I can have a conversation with AI to spitball different strategies and topics that I think our members are going to react well to instead of going off gut feeling.”


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Clara Ma uses AI to help her spitball different strategies.

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Best loves that AI gives her the confidence to table ideas that have been on her “maybe” list or that a handful of members have requested. Uploading information from member surveys and member interviews transcribed with the Otter AI notetaker, she can ask ChatGPT to synthesize what offerings are most in demand—and which are not worth spending energy on from a data perspective.

“As a person, I think, ‘I know the four people who are asking for this, so should I do it anyway?'” Best said. AI’s more neutral perspective helps her put those personal feelings aside and choose programming that will benefit the most members.


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Gabriela Florentino used AI to help her find new ways to monetize her community.

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Fiorentino also uses AI to support broader strategy research. For instance, when trying to brainstorm new ways to monetize, she turned to AI, asking what options were available and what was working for other communities.

For example, she’s launched a new membership tier where service providers can access more visibility and potential clients through her community. She’s also planning to launch a marketplace of eco-friendly products later this year.

AI creates more time for human touchpoints


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Lis Best values AI’s neutral perspective.

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In case it’s not clear, the goal for these solopreneurs is to use AI to maximize human potential, not replace it.

“I always say AI is for automation, not to replace the human,” said Ma, who coaches her small team of contractors to try automating any task that they do more than five times with AI. This ensures she’s using her limited budget only on things that require human touch, not things that a machine can handle.

And with that extra time, they can work to maximize the potential of their members. “Any time we get back, we try to funnel back into the community in some sort of human touchpoint so that our members really feel taken care of and supported,” Ma shared. “AI is never going to replace the human aspect, which is what makes community so worth it in the first place.”




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