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I’ve been to Disney World in every season. Here are 7 reasons winter is the best time of year to go.

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With more than 20 trips to Walt Disney World, I’ve visited during every season and most months of the year — a June work trip, November family trip for our Disney wedding, a 5th birthday trip in May, and in the runDisney ChEAR squad with a friend in February.

This year was my fourth time visiting in the winter months of January/February, and it was just my husband and me. Despite some very chilly days, this trip confirmed it — winter is officially my favorite time to visit Disney World, especially when it’s a kid-free trip.

Winter is a time to explore the parks differently

In the months when avoiding heat and crowds is a priority, it’s best to arrive early, stay late, and avoid being outdoors during the hottest hours of the day.


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It was summer inside Olaf’s character meet but outside it was only 40 degrees.

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When it’s cold, it’s kind of the opposite. We focused on the indoor attractions and spots with indoor queues in the morning.

At 11 a.m., we searched for opportunities to be in the brisk afternoon air and lovely sunshine.

Once the sun started setting and it started getting chillier around 4:30/5 p.m., we headed to eat, taking our time over meals at restaurants geared more toward adults, like Takumi-Tei at EPCOT.

We found rare characters, cold-weather costumes, and new Cast Members

Late January/early February is one of the start times for the Disney College Program, also known as DCP in Disney lingo.


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Meeting rare characters in training is a perk of winter visits.

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Some of my favorite Cast Member interactions have been with excited, brand-new college kids in “Earning My Ears” ribbons. These Cast Members are proof that some of the biggest Disney fans work in the parks.

This is also a time to randomly meet rare characters because characters are being “warmed up” (Disney speak for training) for parades, shows, and character meet and greets.

On this trip, we had two character firsts at EPCOT — meeting both Geppetto from “Pinocchio” and the mice from “Cinderella.” Usually, the only place to see these characters is during a parade.

I got a wave from Geppetto and helped the mice search for Cinderella’s glass slipper.

EPCOT is also home to many outdoor character meet-and-greets. When the temperature drops, the cold-weather costumes come out — Alice dons a gorgeous cloak, Moana has sleeves with seashells, and Aurora gets a stunning pink fur trim on her gown.

We found a new favorite location for a nighttime show, California Grill

With the not-so-magical weather, we changed our plans for the nighttime show.

Even in a hat, gloves, and multiple layers, the chilly nighttime air coming off the lagoon at EPCOT for Harmonious and the cold seats at Hollywood Studio Fantasmic! weren’t appealing.


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California Grill has a unique view of the Magic Kingdom fireworks

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Instead, we made our first visit to California Grill. Seeing fireworks fill the sky over Magic Kingdom, toasty warm with a goat cheese ravioli and a glass of Skywalker wine, was an experience I will happily repeat.

The best EPCOT Festival is for a few weeks and only in the winter

I’ve been to every one of the four annual EPCOT festivals multiple times.

EPCOT International Festival of the Arts is, without a doubt, my favorite. It’s the smallest, shortest, and least busy festival.

We visited the festival every day of our four-day trip. We climbed inside 3D chalk art, saw popular Disney artists, hopped inside scenes from Disney movies, and sampled sips and bites almost too beautiful to eat.


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Thousands of people from all over the world come together to transform this mural to a colorful celebration of community.

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What I love most about the Festival of the Arts is the sense of community and inclusiveness.

We joined thousands of people from around the world to transform a wall into a colorful community art piece.

And, before leaving the park for the evening, we stood with other guests watching Spaceship Earth light up in rainbows while The Muppets sang “Rainbow Connection.”

This trip, we were prepared for the cold weather

Almost every winter trip to Disney, I have come home with an impulse purchase made while freezing in the park.

There’s the blanket from the EPCOT Mexico pavilion we huddled under during the fireworks in November, and the Mickey sweatshirt bought at a very chilly late-night Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party. I have two hoodies from my last trip in February — it was so chilly, I wore both at the same time.


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Wearing items purchased for an Alaska Disney Cruise in Orlando was a surprisingly fun first

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Not this time! We were prepared for the cold, and instead of a suitcase full of cute vintage-inspired Disney dresses — my usual park look — I packed packable puffer jackets and gloves, and got creative with Disney-esque layers.

Multiple guests and Cast Members complimented my Minnie Ear beanie and Mickey-inspired red and black puffer jacket layers — items I got for an Alaska Disney Cruise that I never thought I’d wear in Florida, but looked great in front of the magical glow of Spaceship Earth.




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As a father of 2 young kids, I don’t worry much about screen time. I’m more concerned about what’s actually on the screen.

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I didn’t know what chocolate ganache was before watching reruns of an old Food Network pre-teen baking championship with my kids. But I did spot an opportunity to talk with them about how one contestant kept building her cake after it crumbled. We talked about the word perseverance.

That’s the thing about “screen time” as a modern parenting panic: the same rectangle can either be a sedative or a springboard.

But my wife and I are still fairly new at this — our kids are under 5 — so we talk with other parents about evolving opinions on the use of phones, tablets, computers, and TVs.

From those conversations and our own parenting experience, we’re slowly realizing that it’s not about screen time, but more about what type of content we’re letting our kids watch.

We try to keep screen time to a minimum in our house

My wife, kids, and I live in a Philadelphia rowhome. We’ve kept TV out of our bedrooms and devices out of our daily routine. On trips in the car, bus, and subway, we rely on music and games (I’ve come to loathe “I spy”).

In good weather, we enjoy long walks and frequent visits to our neighborhood rec center. Forced into boredom at home, our kids have developed their own imagined worlds: singing karaoke on the couch, lava-ringed obstacle courses, and preparing elaborate meals in a play kitchen.

But especially on freezing days, when you’re stuck indoors, and everyone’s energy is somehow both too high and already spent, screens help. What’s become clear to me is that a screen’s value depends on what we watch.

Governments are cracking down on youth screen time

In recent years, the global discourse has turned aggressively anti-screen.

Governments are now intervening not just in social media but in screens more broadly. France, for example, has prohibited screen exposure for kids under 3 in childcare settings, and Virginia has moved to make schools “cell phone-free.”

Meanwhile, the American Academy of Pediatrics has long advocated against the simplistic yardstick of screen time, noting there isn’t enough evidence for a single universal time limit, emphasizing family context and habits instead.

It’s more important to me to monitor what my kids are watching than how much

It seems to me that no one can agree on what the maximum screen time should be for children, so that’s why I’m focusing less on time and more on the content.

Watching a kids’ baking show as a family, especially when we can connect the events to our own lives, can be healthy. I’ve seen the positive effects of a great show on my own kids.

For parents of young kids, the difference between cartoons like “Bluey” and “Cocomelon” is obvious: In one, characters develop over seven to 10 minutes, and in the other, brightly colored, computer-animated characters sing hypnotically rhythmic songs in short bursts.

This holds true for older kids, too. With the right guardrails, I think that screens can be genuinely social and developmental, like collaborating with friends in a shared Minecraft world, building a Roblox obstacle course over a week, or editing a goofy video together that takes planning and patience.

I see “good” screen time often involves characters, cause-and-effect, enough plot for us to talk about it together, and a bonus for when it’s social. I don’t see why there should be a time limit on any of that.




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We wanted to freeze time with our daughters. So we rented out our house and sent them to school in 3 countries in one year.

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We were racing to keep up with our packed family schedule. Days blurred into school, work, gymnastics, birthdays, and dinner parties — energizing in theory, exhausting in reality. We were scraping by.

I remember peak multitasking: listening to my 6-year-old read aloud while making breakfast, and trying to finish putting on eyeliner while the eggs finished cooking in the pan.

My husband and I longed for wide-open days to actually connect, but school holidays were never long enough to decompress. We could see how easily the years might slip by, buried in logistics, until suddenly the kids were packing for college.

We wanted to freeze time. So we hatched a plan to leave our “normal” life for a year and have a wild adventure together as a family.

We came up with a plan

In July 2024, we rented out our London home, stored our belongings, and took the bus to Heathrow with two backpacks and a carry-on.

We weren’t wandering aimlessly. We planned to live in three locations, traveling for five weeks before and after each stop.

I pivoted my marketing consultancy toward travel writing and speaking, while my husband’s academic research guided our shortlist of places we wanted to live. His research enabled legal residency which allowed the girls to attend school. We chose Japan, the US, and the Netherlands, staying three to four months in each.

We picked Tsukuba, Japan, to immerse ourselves in a completely unfamiliar culture; Great Neck, New York, near where we’re both from, to give our daughters a taste of American life and spend rare time with family; and Leiden, the Netherlands, to experience its bike- and water-centered lifestyle.

Residency came with a lot of admin.


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Lucas had a plan to homeschool her daughters in Japan (pictured), but ended up sending them to a local school.

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For Japan, we had originally planned to homeschool. Our 8-year-old surprised us by asking to attend a local Japanese school, despite only knowing a few phrases she had picked up during the three weeks we spent traveling around the country.

The school welcomed both girls. Like their classmates, they walked to school alone, changed into indoor shoes, helped serve lunch, and cleaned the classrooms.

In New York, we lived with family outside the city. The girls rode a yellow school bus for the first time, while my husband commuted by train. It was a stark contrast to London — no uniforms, more complicated mornings, and the sobering reality of active-shooter drills.

In Leiden, the girls attended a small international school. Students biked along canals and tended their own garden plots as part of a Dutch gardening program.


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Their daughters enjoyed cycling while living in Leiden, the Netherlands.

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We packed light

Living out of backpacks forced minimalism. I loved escaping the endless to-do list of home life and focusing on actually living.

I wore a single black maxi dress almost every day in Asia — biking through alleys or hiking through the jungle — and it somehow worked.

If anything, I’d bring even less next time. With fewer possessions, our mental bandwidth expanded. We could focus on fun, without guilt.

Parenting on the road

When we first told the girls about our plan, our youngest cried. They loved their friends, their teachers, and the rhythm of school. They couldn’t imagine leaving and not coming back. We tried tempting them with volcanoes and snorkeling in Indonesia.

They came around, somewhat. They loved most moments, but they also always wanted to go home. We promised it would only be a year.


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The family spent time exploring other parts of Asia, including a trip to Mount Bromo, a volcano in Indonesia.

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Our priority was making them feel safe and secure. We talked about adaptability as a life skill, but we also held them close and reminded them they were loved.

Most days, we’d say, “We’re still on the trip,” and it made us feel like a team. The girls learned how to be the new kid, make friends, and settle into unfamiliar rhythms. They learned you can reinvent your life more than once.

The intensity bonded us. We had waterfalls to ourselves, watched wild snow monkeys, and made friends who invited us to visit them in Cozumel. I celebrated my usually grim January birthday on a Thai beach.

In the US, we were present for heavy family moments, including my grandfather’s passing.

We were still on the trip — until we weren’t

Returning to London after 13 months felt surreal. Our 6-turned-7-year-old kissed the ground at Heathrow.

The trip changed us. It gave us shared memories — Hokkaido cream, a road trip from New York to Miami, sunsets from an Alpine hut — but more importantly, it clarified what matters: slow time together, not renovations or packed calendars.

We’re happy to be home, blender included. But we’re already dreaming about our next extended adventure.

Do you have a story about taking a gap year that you want to share? Get in touch with the editor: akarplus@businessinsider.com.




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I thought traveling with toddlers was impossible. Now we live in Spain for 2 months at a time — and it’s cheaper than Disney.

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When I was in junior high, I had a family history project. I didn’t know it then, but that project would spark a lifelong interest in my heritage.

In 2018, my wife (who is Cuban with Spanish ancestry) and I took a road trip through snow-capped Spanish mountains, meeting new family members that I never knew existed. When we met these relatives, we all grew close.

My wife and I then wanted to reconnect with our Spanish heritage in a whole new way. We decided that the best way to do so would be to travel to Spain for long stretches, with our toddlers.

For the past three years, we’ve spent two-month stints in Europe as a growing family.

At first, we thought long-term travel sounded impractical — and expensive

When my daughter was 2 years old, she had a 45-minute meltdown at the Miami International Airport. While we were resolving a ticketing issue for our baby boy, our daughter was throwing a loud tantrum. We endured many side-eyes from soon-to-be passengers (one of them snapped at us), and eventually, an airline employee frantically asked us to make it stop.

I thought we would never travel again, but the idea of an extended trip kept lingering in our minds.

On shorter trips, we pushed through and learned tricks that made travel easier, like using inflatable beds that rest on plane seats, small trinkets to play with, and plenty of snacks. With time, we knew we had a shot.


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The author’s toddlers love traveling in Spain.

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We now stay in Spain for 2 months at a time

Thanks to the flexibility of freelancing and some practice in penny pinching, we learned we could travel to Spain for two months for about the cost of a typical family Disney trip.

A trip to Disney for a family of four can cost $6,000 to $10,000 a week. An extended trip to Spain, I quickly learned, ranged from $4,220 to $4,900 for an apartment in the central parts of major cities.

When we book an apartment for a month or two in Spain, for example, we get rates much lower than for a shorter trip because Airbnb offers discounts on longer stays.

To get the family to Europe, we collect airline miles from credit card offers and fly mostly for free.

While on the trip, we rely on public transportation and shift our stay from a “tourist” experience to living like a local to continue saving money.

This worked for our trips in 2023, 2024, and 2025.

We lived like locals in Spain

When we transitioned from visiting to living in Spain, we focused on the town we were in and the people around us. We didn’t eat out for every meal, but cooked traditional dishes with local ingredients.

Our neighbors became friends, and our kids played at parks with familiar faces. Eventually, these friends invited us to their homes, and we stayed in touch after our trips.

To explore the country, we focused on different regions. For example, in year one we stayed in the Comunidad Valenciana, then on other trips in the País Vasco and Andalucía.

Once we were in these regions, we focused mainly on our home base and explored the nearby cities on weekend trips.

Our kids have gained a lot so far

Our toddlers are now willing to try different foods without hesitation, no matter where we are. They understand and use words they normally wouldn’t hear at home in the US.

As they get older in school, some of the places and events they learn about will be personal because they’ve been there and touched the stones.

My son learned to walk in Spain and has had all of his birthdays there. Spain also became a base for exploring other countries thanks to cheap, short flights.

More families can do this than you’d think

Our experiences in Spain have inspired many of our friends and family. I’m helping a cousin and a neighbor plan similar trips with their children.

With budgeting and smart planning, it’s much more affordable than two-week vacations in many parts of the US.

I’m not sure how long we’ll be able to do extended stays like this, but I do know these memories will be ingrained in our family.

They’ve helped shape my kids’ lives (our third child is on the way), and they continue to inspire us even at home in the US — by cooking Spanish meals, enjoying the present through walks, and lingering over late-night, hourslong dinners.

John Paul Hernandez is a marketing writer for tech companies. He’s based in Florida’s Treasure Coast. Connect with him on LinkedIn.




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I did Y Combinator in 2016 and 2025. The first time felt more ‘family-style.’

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This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Quang Hoang, the 37-year-old cofounder and CEO of Vybe, who lives in San Francisco. It’s been edited for length and clarity.

We started 10 years ago. We were out of college and wanted to solve a problem that we experienced ourselves. When you’re a student, you don’t have that many problems.

When we were interns, we had a lot of expense reports, but we would lose receipts and lose money. When you’re a student, you don’t have much money. One of the first problems we wanted to solve was: Let’s build a mobile app to save your receipts, a bit like Expensify.

Slack released its first API at the time. Now, we could create a bot. That was our pitch to YC: This is a new thing called a Slack bot. During the interview, they installed the Slack bot, and it pinged everyone in the YC Slack. Everyone started to use it. We got in.

It was 2016. At the time, it was in Mountain View. Sam Altman was still a partner. We had some office hours with him.

The core principle remained the same, but everything felt way less streamlined and processed than it is today. For example, the dinners were way more family-style. There weren’t any visible employees. Some of the partners were cooking sometimes. Paul Graham was there.

We still were 100 people total in the batch, which is probably 3x less than it is today. Everything was in-person. We came from France and rented a house. It was a big difference to be in Mountain View when you’ve never lived in the US, than when you already live in San Francisco, and you do YC for the second time.


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Quang Hoang pitched investors on his Slack bot startup at Demo Day in 2015.

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The former company was bought two years ago by Coda, which was acquired by Grammarly. Then, I discovered vibe coding. I decided that Notion, Airtable, Coda, and Retool are going to be the incumbents, and that a new category of vibe-coding platforms are going to emerge.

One of the partners at YC is also a friend, Nicolas Dessaigne. He said, “You should apply to YC.” It was a big opportunity cost to leave the company that acquired me, and having something like YC is a bit reassuring.

The fundamentals are still the same. You still have to talk to users, code, and grow. You still have to grow every single week at a steady percentage growth. It was 5-10% at the time; today it’s more like 10, 12, 15%.

You have more and more young founders. It’s not something that happened in the past 10 years; it probably happened in the past two years. I was one of the old folks. It was also my second company. Many are first-time founders.

I think it was already the case that you want young founders that don’t know limits and don’t have anything that would prevent them from thinking really big. With AI, it’s the same thing.

A constant debate that you have less when you’re a first-time founder is: Should I ship this, or should I double-check it? As a younger, first-time founder, you might have less experience with technical depth because you might not have worked with bigger companies before. You say: Let’s ship this.

The batch sizes don’t feel that different. The interaction you have with your batch is through weekly dinners, group office hours, individual office hours, and Demo Day. You also have some workshops here and there. If you are 300 or 400 people in the batch, it doesn’t change that much if you’re in subgroups.

Sometimes there are events, like when Sam Altman comes to talk, or the CEO of Perplexity or Cursor, where you need to have the whole batch. But, it’s conference style anyway. You have 400 people in a room, sure, but if it’s 150 or 400, it’s the same.


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Quang Hoang’s second Demo Day, this time for Vybe.

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The themes changed a lot, obviously. It was a lot of mobile apps and cloud. Today, it’s a lot of AI. The brand of YC helps a lot. The brand is probably 10x better today than it was 10 years ago.

Demo Day was way more important at the time than it is today. It feels more like an anchor date. It gives urgency to investors: if you don’t invest in the hot startups now, they will meet with thousands of investors two weeks from now, and you might just lose your opportunity.

Good investors all invest before Demo Day. It’s just an anchor date to create a timeline for the investor and the startup.

If you ask me: Are you happy that you went back to YC? The answer is super straightforward. It’s 100% yes.




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The newest villain in ‘Toy Story’ isn’t a toy — it’s screen time

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When “Toy Story” premiered in 1995, the enemy was plastic. In its latest chapter, it’s pixels.

More than 30 years after Woody worried about being replaced by Buzz Lightyear, the franchise is ready to take on a bigger threat: the screen.

The official trailer for “Toy Story 5” was released on Thursday and shows the toys vying for Bonnie’s attention against a frog-themed tablet named Lilypad. Bonnie is the young girl to whom Andy gave his toys when he left for college at the end of “Toy Story 3.”

In the clip, Bonnie receives the device in a package and is almost instantly absorbed, scrolling and tapping with a glazed look as her analog toys watch from the sidelines.

It all builds to a face-off between Jessie the cowgirl doll and Lilypad. Jessie says, “You’re not even listening to me,” only for the tablet to coolly reply, “I’m always listening.”

Jessie, voiced by Joan Cusack, has been in charge since Woody left at the end of “Toy Story 4.” Now, as Bonnie’s attention drifts elsewhere, the gang brings their old — and now balding — leader back.

“I don’t know, Jessie,” Woody says in the trailer. “Toys are for play, but tech is for everything.”

The film is set to be released on June 19, with Tom Hanks and Tim Allen returning to voice Woody and Buzz, respectively.

The storyline taps into a broader debate playing out in real life, as parents and experts wrestle with how screens are reshaping childhood.

Too much screentime has been linked to delays in social skills development, as well as problems with attention and behavior. Those concerns have prompted some governments to move toward banning social media use for children under 16.

The last installment in the Pixar franchise, “Toy Story 4,” was released in 2019. It surpassed $1 billion at the global box office and won an Oscar for best animated feature.




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Police arrested a man at a meeting to discuss a proposed Oklahoma data center after exceeding his time limit by 30 seconds

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Applause broke out during an Oklahoma man’s speech at a city council meeting on Tuesday to discuss a proposed data center. A minute later, shouts of disbelief rang out across the room.

“Disgusting!” one woman shouted as Claremore Police Department officers handcuffed and escorted Daniel Blanchard out of the room.

Authorities said they arrested Blanchard, whose speech exceeded the three-minute time limit, for trespassing.

Over 100 people, including Blanchard, had gathered in a ballroom at Rogers State University in Claremore to voice their opinions about the large data center project. The developer, Beale Infrastructure, is proposing a campus in the Claremore Industrial Park that includes data centers, supporting infrastructure, and office space.

Blanchard was among the residents who opted to speak during the public comment portion, which limits each person to three minutes. In his speech, Blanchard spoke about what he considered compliance issues related to the potential data centers.

“The Claremore Industrial Economic Development Authority has a fiduciary responsibility to the public, not to build infrastructure. And this act of overreach is putting the health and safety of members of this community at risk,” he said.

AI is driving a data center construction boom across the United States. While companies like OpenAI argue that building new data centers will reindustrialize the US economy and create jobs, residents of towns where developers are proposing new data centers worry about their impact on power grids, water resources, pollution, and overall quality of life.

In an investigation published in September, Business Insider reported that over 1,200 data centers had already been built or were approved for construction across the country.

The proposed data center in Claremore, a suburban hub of Tulsa home to about 20,000 people, has divided the town. During the three-hour meeting on Tuesday evening, dozens of residents spoke both in favor and against the project.

Blanchard exceeded his three minutes by about 30 seconds before police officers approached him. He gathered his notes and calmly followed the officers to the front of the hall, where town officials were sitting.

In a video of the meeting posted by the town on its YouTube channel, Blanchard appears to hand his notes to a council member. At that point, police arrested Blanchard, placing him in handcuffs. The crowd hollered in shock.

In a statement, the Claremore Police Department said officers aren’t responsible for enforcing city council rules and only become involved in city council meetings when an official orders them to remove an individual.

“The man’s position on the issues, what he said, or his unwillingness to follow rules of the meeting played no part in the officer’s decision to arrest him,” the statement said. “He was arrested for trespassing in compliance with the law and with the hope of restoring order to an important meeting.”

A local politician fighting the data center project posted to X on Wednesday that Blanchard has been released from jail. The next council meeting is scheduled for March 2.




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They moved to China for a new adventure. Their 3 kids gained independence — and mom has time for hobbies.

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After five years in Qatar, Elisa Orsi and her husband, David Sleight, knew they were ready to leave the desert behind.

They had moved from Australia to the Middle Eastern country in 2019 with their three kids — all under 6 — after Sleight accepted a job there.

Already big travelers before they had kids, the couple used school holidays to see the world after starting a family, before later leveraging Sleight’s teaching career to travel even more.


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The family moved to Qatar from Australia because they wanted to experience more of the world.



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“Usually when people have children, it deters them from travel, but we went completely the other way,” Orsi, 37, a stay-at-home mom, told Business Insider.

Life in Qatar felt safe and comfortable, and it served as a base from which they could explore the region, traveling to places like Jordan, Turkey, and Egypt.

Gradually, the couple found themselves looking for something new.

“By the time we came back from our summer holiday in 2024, we said, ‘OK, we’re done. We need a change,'” Orsi said.

In August 2024, the family packed up their bags and moved to Hangzhou, a bustling city in eastern China.

Moving to China

China had been on their radar for a long time, though neither of them had visited before.

It wasn’t until Sleight came across an online job ad for a teaching role in Hangzhou that they began looking into the city.


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The family had traveled through other parts of Asia and always wondered what life in China was like.



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“I was impressed with the natural beauty and how modern the city appeared. I knew China was very well connected by the railway infrastructure, so I wasn’t overly concerned about the location,” Sleight, 45, told Business Insider.

The couple looped their kids, who are now 11, 9, and 7, into the conversation about moving to China early. “We wanted to give them lots of time to process and to get an understanding of what was happening,” she said.

“We have a philosophy that we talk to our children, and we keep them informed about the decisions we make,” Orsi said.


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The couple involved their three young children in conversations about the move early on.



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To ease the transition, they showed their kids YouTube videos about China and the school they would attend.

When they arrived in Hangzhou, Orsi said their first impressions quickly put any lingering nerves at ease.

“We were actually quite shocked to see how clean, how modern, how organized, and how convenient everything is,” Orsi said. “Sometimes you watch videos, but unless you’re actually in it, you can’t really understand it to that degree until it affects your life.”

Their children attend an international school, and Sleight teaches English in the school’s bilingual program.

House-hunting was a breeze because the school put them in contact with a real-estate agent ahead of their move.


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They live in an apartment about five minutes away from the school.



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“We wanted to have a bedroom for each of the kids, and we were looking for amenities,” she said. “Most importantly, we wanted to be close to the school.”

Within 10 days of arriving in China, the family moved into a four-bedroom apartment. It’s about a five-minute drive from the school and roughly 50 minutes outside the city center, in a neighborhood dominated by local Chinese families.

Rent is 5,500 Chinese yuan, or about $790 a month, and is covered by the school as part of Sleight’s employment contract.

Life in Hangzhou

Moves like the couple’s have become more common in recent years. China’s latest national census shows that 845,697 foreigners were living in the country in 2020, up from 593,832 a decade earlier.

Even with a growing foreign community, the transition isn’t always easy.

The biggest challenge has been the language barrier, though translation apps have helped. Orsi is learning Mandarin through online apps, while the children learn it at school.

Sleight relies on support from bilingual teachers and staff, and many parents at the school speak English.

“During staff meetings and presentations, I wear an earpiece and listen to a live translation provided by the school’s professional translator,” he said. Sleight added that parents and staff also communicate through a messaging app with built-in translation.

In China, the family also had to get used to a system in which nearly everything, including payments, is done on a smartphone.

Despite those adjustments, Orsi said safety has been one of the most striking aspects of life in China. She said she’s often asked about the presence of surveillance cameras, but sees them as a positive.


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Orsi said the level of safety in China has given her children more freedom to move about on their own.



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“If anything were to go wrong, the issue would be resolved very, very quickly. So the children, they can be outside on their own,” Orsi said. She added that she probably wouldn’t feel comfortable giving her kids the same level of freedom even in Townsville, a city in North Queensland, where they lived before moving to Qatar.

It’s also common to see children wearing kid-friendly smartwatches, which let them be more independent.

“You can see their location, they can call you, they can pay for things, and so they can go anywhere. They’ll organize their own play dates and go and meet their friends,” she said.

As a woman, Orsi also feels safe walking alone, including from the train station late at night. “I have not thought about it twice. I wouldn’t do it in Australia. And I wouldn’t do it in Argentina, where I’m from,” she said. Orsi moved to Australia in her teens and later met Sleight while working at a telecommunications company.


Two kids along the Great Wall of China.

The family has been using school holidays to travel around China, including to the Great Wall.



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It took a year, but Orsi says the family finally feels settled in their new home. Most of their social circle has grown out of the school community, including other parents and foreign teachers.

The longer school days have also given Orsi more time for herself. She said she’s picked up new hobbies, including learning to play the piano, going to the gym, and focusing on content creation for their YouTube channel, where she and Sleight document their family life in China.

Sleight is on a three-year contract at the school. As for what comes next, Orsi said the family hasn’t made any firm decisions.

“I think we would probably like to move elsewhere and go to another country when our contract is up, but that could change,” she said. “We may very well decide to stay in China and move to another school or experience a different city.”

Do you have a story to share about relocating to a new city? Contact this reporter at agoh@businessinsider.com.




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I’m going to Disneyland with my kids for the first time. I’m terrified.

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My Disney dilemma

My wife and I are about to take our two kids to Disneyland … and I’m absolutely terrified.

Not because I don’t want to go. My nearly 3-year-old carries his Mickey Mouse stuffie everywhere. He sleeps with it. Eats with it. When he sees Mickey in real life, he’ll lose it. I can’t wait for that.

Here’s the problem: I’m really worried about how much it’s going to cost. The price of visiting Disney — and competing amusement parks — has been rising for years. But the upper end of what it can cost, depending on the experience you want, has entered rarefied air.

In a recent Business Insider documentary, we dug into Disney’s history to better understand the real reason the Mouse House has gotten so expensive. When Disneyland opened in 1955, admission was basically pocket change. Back then, it cost 50 cents for a child and $1 an adult, to get in, or $6 and $12, respectively, in today’s dollars adjusted for inflation. Going on the rides cost more.

Today, admission plus rides can run close to $200 a day, although the lower tiers are cheaper. Then there’s the food. The merchandise. Not to mention the enormous crowds and the endless lines if you don’t pay for a line-jumping pass. The happiest place on Earth? My wallet might disagree.

Disney parks have been a bright spot for the company post-COVID under the stewardship of parks czar Josh D’Amaro. He is set to succeed Bob Iger as CEO.

The question now is whether Disney diehards start to change course.

One hardcore Disney fan who still visits multiple times a year told us she’s cut back on extras and avoids premium shortcuts or add-ons.

Another family dropped nearly $10,000 on Disney World and came home with a list of what they’d cut next time.

There are Disney-specific budgeting stories, too, showing how families save on tickets, food, and hotels. I’m taking notes.

My real fear isn’t the credit-card bill. What if my kids love it? What if they beg to go back? What if this trip becomes such a core memory — priceless, one might say — that they measure other vacations against it?

Wish me luck.

What are your best Disney tricks and hacks? I’d love to hear from you at srussolillo@businessinisider.com.




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How we spent $1,600 on a 2-day trip to Disney World — and what we’d do differently next time

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I’ve been to Disney World many times, and I like to think I know how to do it on a “budget” … at least, a loose one.

Recently, my partner and I planned a last-minute trip to the theme park on our way to visit family in Southern Florida for the holidays.

Between flights, transportation to and from the airport, lodging, park tickets, food, and souvenirs, we spent about $1,600, or $800 each … for about 48 hours in the Disney bubble.

Here’s a look at what we spent, ways we saved, and what we might do differently next time.

We stuck with a value resort since we wouldn’t be spending much time in our room


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All-Star Music is a value resort at Disney.

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We spent $237 on our flights from Fort Myers, Florida, to Orlando and landed a few hours before we planned to visit Disney World.

By the time we arrived at our value resort, All-Star Music, our room was ready for check-in ($319 for two nights).

We tend to choose value resorts because they are the cheapest hotels on Disney property. Plus, stays come with complimentary bus transportation to the parks and Disney Springs.

All-Star Music was the cheapest of the five Disney value resorts when we booked, and our room provided us with enough space for our short stay.

After grabbing some snacks at the hotel food court ($25), we took a much-needed nap and got ready to visit Magic Kingdom.

Since we attended a seasonal event, we didn’t need buy separate park tickets


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Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party was fun.

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Fortunately, past me unknowingly helped me save during the trip.

I had two unused tickets to last year’s Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party — an additional ticketed event held at Magic Kingdom — that I was able to put toward a new party date. I just had to pay the difference, which was $21 for both tickets.

These tickets typically run $169 to $209 per person, and they felt virtually free since I’d already paid for them in the past.

We also didn’t need to buy a park ticket because we were able to enter Magic Kingdom at 4 p.m. on our event day — and we could stay until midnight.

Several drinks and treats were included with our ticket


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Our Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party tickets came with some freebies.

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When we arrived at Mickey’s Very Merry Christmas Party, we each got an ornament and a Mickey-shaped peppermint marshmallow.

Our ticket also included festive treats and drinks, like cookies and hot chocolate, that we picked up throughout the evening. I’d estimate we consumed at least $30 worth of treats.

We got our sugar fill with those and purchased a few savory bites, like my favorite meal at Magic Kingdom, the ham-and-Gruyère croissant sandwich with chips ($11) at Gaston’s Tavern.

We also got popcorn for only $2.50 because we got a refill in our reusable popcorn bucket — it’s a must-pack item for every Disney trip.

I kept my souvenir purchases to a pair of mix-and-match character ears ($46 for a headband and two characters to go on it) and a commemorative event pin ($23).

The party also included performances, a holiday parade, fireworks, character meet and greets, and access to classic rides (which sometimes have shorter waits than a normal park day).

We got to ride all the Magic Kingdom rides we wanted to (some multiple times) without having to pay extra for line-skipping Lightning Lane passes.

A Magic Kingdom ticket on its own can run upwards of $200 depending on the day, so the special event add-ons, like unique character meet and greets and complimentary snacks, definitely make the ticket price worth it.

These events are my hack to a cheaper Disney day if you’re down to have a late night and stay in one park instead of opting for a flexible-but-pricier park-hopper pass.

If it’s your first time at Magic Kingdom and you can get a one-day ticket for the same price or less than the party ticket, I’d stick with the former so you can go at your own pace.

Our second day was focused on eating around the world at Epcot, and we didn’t spare any expense


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I don’t regret buying the carrot cake.

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We purchased two single-day tickets to Epcot for our second day, which cost us $381.

On longer trips, we normally opt for the flexibility of park-hoppers, but we didn’t want to spend our limited time traveling between parks. Plus, the flexible multi-park ticket would’ve cost over $70 more per person.

Since we were staying in Epcot, we didn’t buy Lightning Lane passes.

I don’t think they’re worth it here because the park doesn’t have many rides — plus, we could use single-rider lanes to skip large waits at both Remy’s Ratatouille Adventure and Test Track.

Most of our money was spent at on food and drinks from booths at Epcot International Food and Wine Festival.


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We got a lot of drinks and bites during the Epcot International Food and Wine Festival.

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We revisited festival classics, like the filet mignon with mashed potatoes ($20 for two orders) from the Canada pavilion, and tried some new favorites, like the flauta de barbacoa ($9) from the booth in Mexico. We loved the latter so much we got it twice.

Other favorites included the warm carrot cake with cream-cheese icing ($5), which I get every year, and my favorite drink, the Ottawa Apple ($16.50).


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The chicken dumplings we had were just OK.

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Some bites were just OK, like the chicken dumplings ($6) in the China pavilion.

However, I’m glad we looked into festival menus in advance to plan which booths we wanted to prioritize. This helped us save time and money while getting me more excited about our trip.

I shelled out the most money on collectible pins


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I often meet characters and trade pins when I visit Disney.

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Every time I go to Disney, I know I’m going to put most of my souvenir budget toward collectible enamel pins, and this trip was no exception.

Many of these pins can only be purchased at Disney parks, and collecting and trading them is a popular hobby.

On this trip, I was trying to complete a set and only needed one more pin, so I bought multiple mystery two-packs at about $23 each.

Ultimately, I spent $165 on mystery packs, which is more than my share of the hotel. I didn’t complete my set and I ended up with way more pins than I wanted (or needed).

Next time, I’ll buy one or two pins that I can pick out myself instead of mystery packs. I also plan to hold off on buying more until I can swap the ones I don’t want at one of the trading stations in the parks.

We ended our trip with a free activity

After our full Epcot day, our last afternoon was spent walking around Disney Springs.

The shopping and dining spot has free parking and is a nice place to wander if you’re wanting to be part of the Disney bubble without forking over hundreds for tickets.

Then, we headed to the airport for our flights home ($197).

All in all, we enjoyed ourselves and made the most of our 48 hours


Author Jordyn Bradley hugging Donald Duck

I didn’t calculate what I spent until I got home, but I didn’t shy away from lots of snacks and mystery pin packs, so it’s not surprising how we got there.

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Many people could spend what we did on our two-day trip and stay at resorts with nicer amenities or have more park days and sit-down meals.

However, because this trip was last-minute, we were happy with anything we made the time for, and since it was shorter, we felt better about having a higher food and souvenir budget.

Those were our priorities, especially since we never spend enough time at our hotel to justify booking a nicer one at a higher nightly rate.

We could’ve made the trip more affordable by spending less on souvenirs, which we will likely do next time. However, now I have more pins to trade for my next trip — and a way to remember one of our favorites.




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